Jumping to conclusions wrote:
Conundrum wrote:All those girls and you didn't establish one meaningful long term relationship!? Suggestion, do you think just maybe you ought to change the way you are trying to meet women?
I see hundreds of women on date sites, and rarely if ever meet any of them, because the chances of them being a good match with me are basically zero.
According to you, I've missing out on possibly one meaningful relationship by not meeting any of the. However I think that is blatantely false. The OP's experience is very similar to mine, except he's at least bothering to meet the ones that he probably already knows in advance have no chance.
I give him credit for that, as it's something that I wouldn't bother to do.
You both seem to be under the assumption that a meaningful long term connection is and only ever could be the only goal in dating, which is nowhere near the truth. I went out with over 30 girls in the last 5 months and overall had a great time and gained a lot of experiences. I also have a ton of funny and interesting stories from it all. I met some girls I don't care to ever see again, but I also met girls who, even though we have no desire to marry each other, are still cool with one another and like each other. I also had a good amount of sex, which was fun.
I've actually had pretty good luck with tinder in this town. People on there are remarkably normal. It's a very normal and acceptable thing here. I've met plenty of girls without tinder too... Most people are way too closed off when it comes to meeting people. If you view any interaction that doesn't lead to marriage as a waste of time, of course you're going to be disappointed and unhappy a lot. Don't take things so seriously.