Women generally put up with boring if there is a lot of money at stake.
I was raised in poverty and abuse, so of course the notion of "fun" never occurred to me. Like a Division 1 track scholarship was "fun". Heck, just getting away from a father who abandoned the family but came around often enough to beat the crap out of me and my mother and my mother's alcoholism was my definition of fun.
I played the snobby higher education lottery well (I have no idea how I did did it) and I now make a very, very good living, and my wife and daughters (out of school now from the Ivy League) are, with the "ahem" leadership of my wife, very happy that I am boring. I am their employee, best not seen or heard. In fact, they respect me not a bit, because, well, I am just an employee. I have no illusions, however, as I am the cause of this whole mess. I let it happen, and they just take the paid for in full nice 5 bedroom house, the cars at no cost to them, the free and easy spending money budget, the clothes, the Ivy League educations, the trips to Europe, and so on, all as a matter of entitlement. Just like demanding boss thinks of their employees, they are owed it and don't you dare bother with things like respect or anything similar. Of course, I naively and stupidly think their behavior is unprincipled (I don't like taking others money and don't feel comfortable relying on anyone but myself), not realizing that most people simply take what they can get.
I wonder if the women looking for fun could not similarly be corrupted in a heartbeat with money. It sure appears that way to me.
My guess is that there are women out there who are principled and not insecure. I sure as heck did not find one.