As someone who recently moved to Baltimore, I'm very much into the Ray Rice situation.
A few comments.
The lynch mob mindset blows my mind. We all knew he knocked his girlfriend out. That should have been more than a 2 game suspension. But this is a guy from what I can tell had been in zero trouble before, whom the prosector let join a pre-trial diversion program, who has done a lot in town.
Now the video comes out and there is a lynch mob? I don't like the double jeopardy. Everyone - the NFL, the prosecutors and Ravens - had already made a punishment. Now they are totally changing it.
Don't misunderstand me, I'm not condoning what he did. One of the three rules my father gave me as a child was never to hit a woman. I remember that and would never consider it (I believe my mom actually tried to amend it and say something if it was being attacked i could).
But does anyone besides me think it's weird there is so much outrage over this crime? We're constantly told that there should be more women CEOs, a woman president, etc but the moment there is a fight between a man and a woman, society acts like it's 1820. I'm curious to what true feminists think about this.
Yes he's way bigger and way stronger. His actions are indefensible even if she was coming at him. But this is an assault case.
Others in the NFL have done worse stuff but since there is no video of it (crimes, fathering tons of children and not supporting them), there is zero outrage.
Compare Ray Rice to Brandon Marshall of the Bears:
http://articles.chicagotribune.com/2012-03-14/sports/chi-brandon-marshalls-rap-sheet-20120314_1_brandon-marshall-rasheedah-watley-press-charges
Ben Roethlisberger was accused of sexual assault twice. Yes, he wasn't convicted. But if the NFL is going to use the legal system's decision as the basis for its decisions, well then Ray Rice is in a pre-trial diversion program. He has married the woman as well.
It will be interesting to see what happens down the road. Here in town, they are trying to make it illegal for employers to ask on the initial job application if a person has been convicted of a crime. That can only be asked later in the process as they want to give people a chance for redemption after mistakes.
That type of think is in stark contrast to the lynch mob mindset on the national media.