Conundrum wrote:
The issue is not whether you can afford the dog or whether it is fair to the other dog, the issue is that your wife totally dismissed any feelings that you had and made a unilateral decision.
I think you should be angered by this. She couldn't reach you by cell phone, it had to be bought immediately without talking to you about it.
Explain to her why she was wrong to get a dog without discussion and then you have decide whether you should have her take it back.
I hope she's damn good in bed because she seems like a lousy life partner.
Yeah, God forbid a woman should ever buy anything without consulting the man first. It is 1953, after all. I remember one day I got home from work to find that my little lady had gone out and bought a new toaster oven without asking. Needless to say, she returned that toaster oven the following day (only after a stern talking to).