ttyrdyjud wrote:
yes, but "comfort" doesn't cost that much. Kids don't each that much. And they don't really have any costs besides healthcare. Under $20k can be a very comfortable and easy life if you don't try to go out and buy $50 take out to eat in front of the tv. That's with kids also.
Again, you don't have kids. Have a kid, then convince me you won't do everything in your power to overestimate, overcompensate, whatever, to make sure those kids are taken care of.
If you can tell me you make under $20k and support yourself and at least one kid (maybe a spouse too?), maybe I'll eat my words. But then again, if you're supporting yourself and a kid on less than $20k I will question your ability as a parent.