Guys that cheated on your wives....do you regret it?

Don't do it. You will screw up a good thing and regret it forever.

she deserves better

I regretted having an affair with a married woman while I was single. Don't cheat no matter what.

Don't cheat. Never break this rule. It's dishonest.

We've all been where you are, married and lusting after other women. I'm still there and I don't anticipate anything changing. Just don't act on it. I never did and I am glad. Believe me, your wife lusts, too -- just be thankful she is honest with you.

Don't fvcking cheat on your wife.

Don't.

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Please go write to Dear Abigail and get the hell off a running site.

Thanks.

young lad wrote:

I love my wife

Yeah, you should just screw over the women that you love, who has agreed to share your her life with you and who you may have children with.

If you should already have children then you truly are a selfish idiot.

Is the into a threesome?

I say go for it. You only live once. Your wife won't be hurt by your actions as long as you don't get caught. You just have to be absolutely sure you won't get caught, but that isn't too challenging if you are smart.

Go for it! Go find a lose woman, blow her out like a flat tire then go back to your wife like nothing happened. if you're happier, she will be to.

No.

young lad wrote:

I love my wife, we have sex weekly and our relationship is otherwise great, but I literally crave having sex with other women. I'm thinking of having fun on the side of my marriage. Has anybody here been in this situation(or similar ) and regreted it or not?

Go ahead and call me an asshole.

I've been married for 2 years and I'm currently involved in what many would call a tumultuous marriage. I've been in a situation where I wanted to cheat...very badly...with a girl who went through a failed marriage of her own. It's very enticing to explore opportunities with other women when you and your wife AREN'T having sex for months on end, you are constantly arguing, and your wife is generally in a miserable mood for 5 days of the week and there is literally NOTHING to you can do help her.

The funny thing is that I hated being in the dating circuit a couple years ago and desired something serious. But once you get involved in something serious like marriage, you start to desire things you don't have the ability to do anymore - like simply drop the broad when she is giving you problems and claim no responsibility.

What you need to do is try to find what it is that attracted you to your wife in the beginning. Focus on all the great qualities that she has, and do a self-realization check and accept that you aren't perfect either.

Hang in there - DON'T CHEAT. It takes a bigger man NOT to cheat. Marriage is motherphucker but it also brings many great things.

I've cheated on both of my wives and if I get married again, I'll probably do it again. I want the best of both worlds.

just recite the husband's mantra:

I WILL cheat...just not today

that gets you through some tough times

I've been married 15 years, no cheating here

Its a simple matter of - Do you care if you get caught?

I had a woman on the side for several years and broke it off. I wasn't overt about the affair, but I didn't care if I got caught or not.

I caught my wife cheating about 3 yrs after and thanked God almighty. I was ecstatic. I got away from that bitch and looked like the victim. Both affairs; hers and mine were fine with me.

Do you care if you wife finds out? Because probably more often than not, you'll get caught.

NPH wrote:

I say go for it. You only live once. Your wife won't be hurt by your actions as long as you don't get caught. You just have to be absolutely sure you won't get caught, but that isn't too challenging if you are smart.

This ^ is really good advice...

...as long as you believe that your wife (and by extension, everybody) is not entitled to make decisions and live her life as she sees fit with whatever information that she thinks is important to her and that is held by another who "loves" her.

I like Ross Perot's quote on this.

"I'd never knowingly hire a man that cheats on his wife. If the wife can't trust ya, why should I?"