jesse was a friend wrote:
Would you default in a track race instead of facing a girl? My guess is that most of you pansies would be afraid of losing to a girl.
There are certain values, traditions, codes of acceptable behavior, taboos, manners that are entrenched in our culture.
Some of these are good and fair, some of them are not.
The standards of a culture should not be judged nor changed on the backs of 112 pound 15 year old boys.
Certainly women should continue to gain equality in the areas that are relevant. There are walls and ceilings to be broken.
There should be a way of prioritizing the barriers that are torn down.
There is no need for this barrier to be torn down, at this point. The only one being treated unfairly in this case is the boy.
I would steadfastly refuse to wrestle her. She and her parents should be ashamed for putting the young man in this position.