Your toast!!
Your toast!!
ghost of christmas past wrote:
She is extremely religious, we have not slept together.
She wants to marry you. Run away
You don't have stuff already planned with your own family? Otherwise go, it will build up "panty points". Might as well meet the parents. No big deal. If you did any dating in high school (but then again you're a distance runner), you always met the parents.
Depends on the situation.
I was in a similar situation a many years ago.
I reluctantly decided to go.It turns out that an invite to this girl's parents place was:
Three days on the farm beside the river.
A huge family turnout of about fifty hard drinkers and random hangers on. Sleeping in a tent with said girl for a three day orgy between drinks.Sort of a private Woodstock,I guess.
Ended up marrying the girl and still go there for Christmas.
Oh yes.
This was a devout catholic family.
Find a nice yiddish girl who will appreciate your frugal nature.
Now I want some Red Lobster biscuits.
Deep thoughts wrote:
Find a nice Jewish girl who will appreciate your frugal nature.
(Yiddish is a language.)
Ouch! In OP's defense, he might have splurged and not been there for an Early Bird special. (/lame attempt at comedy)
And, in even more defense, I grew up darn near in the middle of nowhere, and Red Lobster was the only seafood option available in the closest (medium-sized) "city." Snark if you want, but The Lobster is comparatively swanky when there's a paucity of restaurants and you're in flyover land.
The age, budget, and locale of the OP and his date weren't detailed. I know at times/places in my life, taking a date to Red Lobster would be big spending and quasi-impressive to a small-town girl. (Waitresses actually come up to you to put fresh-ground pepper on your salad!)
Well - depends on how old you are. But, if you're old enough to consider this girl as a long term prospect, by all means go.
And be VERY aware of what her mother looks like and acts like. Because, that, most likely, will be your girlfriend in 25+ years.
If you can't stand her mom, then bow out of the relationship gently.
If you're under 25, you shouldn't be considering any girl as a "long term prospect".
swedishbasteve wrote:
Your toast!!
No, you're toast.
What about his toast?
Ho Hum wrote:
She wants to marry you. Run away
He isn't fast enough...but if he cracks 15.30 there might be a chance.
If you have no plans with your family on that day then yes, go. It will give you panty points and you can see how her family functions in case you stay in the relationship for the long haul.
Besides, it's always fun meeting new people. What do you have to lose by going?
My personal experience from a few years ago. Was invited to a family Christmas dinner by a girl I recently began sport fcking. Went, had a great time, met her sister, met her brother, met her dad who imediately knew I was just playing his daughter, met her mother and had a wonderful time. I'm now with another girl, but I still go fishing with her brother and she and her sister still go out on the ski boat with me in the Summer months (nothing like looking at bikini's all day long!).
How long before Heather asked Mark to have Christmas with her family?
Ive decided to attend the family christmas.
I should add that i plan on being extremely drunk.
obvious troll is obvious. LetsRunners do not have "girlfriends"
m. jones wrote:
i'd go, but under the stipulation that you get to do her ass that night.
This is the correct answer.
Dont Be Cruel wrote:
(Yiddish is a language.)
Yiddish may be used in an adjectival sense to designate attributes of the culture.
Got a chuckle when I saw the "chafed penis" thread following this one. If that is a sign, then it ought to be a very merry Xmas for the OP.
Considering the millions of people that nazis like Obama, Hitler, W. Bush, Stalin, Truman... have exterminated, I'd participate in her family's Christian mythology only if she's doing you every day.