Let the old Wadster dissect your post:
You have a well-paying job...for a 23 year old. Great. Don't you have dreams? Dreams that you should probably accomplish on your own BEFORE you decide on a long-term monogamous relationship?
You RECENTLY began dating two girls...Dude, wake up. Keep dating the two girls. They love/hate competition - keep them on their toes - don't commit. Repeat after me:
I AM NOT READY FOR COMMITMENT...I AM 23 YEARS OLD
Cute, decent, personality - Argh. Seriously - do I need to comment on these buzz words to the rest of us?
Cute usually means fugly
Decent means she's "nice"
Great personality....come on.
Now, the wealthy part....would her parents make YOU sign a prenup? I know my kids, if they want any of their inheritance, have to sign prenups with their significant others.
By all means though - marrying for money makes sense sometimes, especially if she's "cute" and "decent".
These girls are awesome to date...but USUALLY end up as either single mothers or divorcees. This is the one YOU make sign the prenup. Probably could be a stripper, right? Yep, I know her.
If you have sex - please please please use a condom, do NOT trust that she's on the pill.
Again - date her - but don't drop either of them!
Solid relationships should be made with your family and existing friendships for now at your age. Keep pursuing ALL girls - because narrowing it down to two "finalists" this early in the game isn't in keeping with what you need right now....options....travel....fun....
In all seriousness - do NOT limit yourself at your young age. Do everything you can right now without the burden of a long-term girlfriend or family. YOU WILL REGRET IT IF YOU DON'T - or suffer through a mid-life crisis in your 40s or 50s.