Keep up. I posted that I accepted the request.
I have shown my wife her pick. It's all out in the open.
No over-analyzing. Just throwing out the discussion.
I actually think this makes it less likely to fool around on the side.
Liked the video
Keep up. I posted that I accepted the request.
I have shown my wife her pick. It's all out in the open.
No over-analyzing. Just throwing out the discussion.
I actually think this makes it less likely to fool around on the side.
Liked the video
birthdaygirl wrote:
Jealous? Actually I encourage him to send Christmas cards to his ex wife's parents. There's a friend that we have that likes him and I had her stay at our house for a week while we were gone and encouraged her to throw a house party in our home while we were out of town. With instructions to do whatever she wants, go through whatever she wants cause I have nothing to hide. She could have sniffed his underwear for all I care. I also spent the weekend putting photos of his many ex girlfriends into photo albums neatly. I am very trusting. And he has never betrayed my trust. He is a good guy with a sketchy past that I thought he had let go of.
You are a strange one...
He is a reformed 'player' (for lack of better word). And also a divorcee, so I guess makes sense. So he totally fits this description.
I am jealous if I care... And strange if I don't...
If by strange you mean trusting, or has nothing to hide, then guilty as charged. Or strange meant trying to get into a typical guy's mind, guilty there too.
Just trying to make sense of a situation. If you need a place to make senseless comments, I believe that's what FB is for.
birthdaygirl wrote:
I would classify your stance as friending people who you wish to be in touch with (no matter how little). That is totally understandable.
My bf is opposite with you in regards to ex wife, he would probably be friends with his ex if I hadn't voiced potential uncomfortableness.
So there must be a reason why you are not friends with your ex wife. Let's hear it.
Ok, in touch w/, even in a minimal way. It is okay w/ me.
I am not friend w/ my ex wife because she was abusive. Physically. I do not want anything to do w/ her. I keep all contact to a minimum.
Mr. Obvious: my ex wife
Pics?
obvious fan wrote:
Mr. Obvious: my ex wifePics?
Haha, I deserve that since I always ask for Pics.
I don't have any and you wouldn't want to see. She gained weight throughout or marriage and didn't take care of herself and is now at least 50 lbs. overweight.
Feel bad for whoever she's abusing now after the weight gain...
Off topic a bit. I just received a letter from the husband of an old girlfriend.
Should I open the letter?
pongwr wrote:
Seriously? Anyone older than 16 that's on FB has some developmental problems.
Seriously? Someone who believes this is obviously 98 or older.
WTMC wrote:
Off topic a bit. I just received a letter from the husband of an old girlfriend.
Should I open the letter?
I would think you should, particularly if you are out of work again and have excess free time.
its Facebook not F*ckbook for crying out loud.. are you friends with her? i.e if you ran into her would you say hello? then do it.
If not ignore her... should be an easy one.
I am curious how your ex-wife was physically abusive? I have never hit a woman, not even slapped or grabbed or pushed. I never have had that kind of urge to, no matter how mad they make me (and believe me they have!).
However, a few of them have hit me or shoved me and it made me laugh a little and then I told them they "couldn't hit me ... ever." I asked them how they would feel if I got frustrated and hit them? I think our relationship would be over?
Anyway, sometimes I think about a GF really hitting me, for real, and I think I would hit them back, hard. Only hit them hard enough to knock them off their feet and stop them. Obviously, the relationship would be over after that, as I could not be with someone who could not control their temper and they would need to resolve issues a different way. But I have thought about that.
So I guess I wonder how she could abuse you more than 2 or 3 times and still have you allow it?