So I let me girlfriend use my computer for a minute last night and I forgot to exit out of a page that was X rated.
all she said was "what is this" I said what it was and left it at that. I did not have a good explanation really. ..
anyone else on here deal with a situation like this? I know you are all gay and probably dont even have a g/f to have this happen. . . just give some advice/info please!
bust wrote:
just give some advice/info please!
You have a girlfriend yet you are visiting porn sites?
Sounds like you are really gaining a lot of carnal experience with your "girlfriend".
Sucks to be you.
Tell her it is porn and you look at it to amuse yourself and kill time once in a while. It is obviously something you do from time to time so unless you plan to stop on her behalf, she might as well get used to it.
Even a gay guy would call you a pussy for worrying if your girl friend is mad because you were looking at porn.
If you had any balls, you would have asked her to look at the site with you, but you didn't and are acting like your Mom busted you, because you are a pussy
all true thanks for your posts. .
could have been worse - could have been your wife discovering your cleverly hidden porn stash on a flash drive, that she used to transport pictures to the photo shop - then when their machine scans your flash drive, all photos pop up on the screen - not that I know anything about this happening.
That is funny. Why don't you rename the files with a dummy extension? Like, instead of *.wmv or *.jpg you can just make up an extension like *.vmw or *.gpj. That way, Windows doesn't recognize the file and it won't appear when opened unless the user knows which software to open it with.
Not that I do this at home or anything
You don't owe her an explanation.
Despite you best intentions at making the OP feel stupid you are the one who comes across as the weirdo. I would like to see a show of hands among non-liberty attending guys with girlfriends who do not look at porn... room is silent... ok
Well - there were a number of regular files and folders - then innocuously named files - 2 layers even, then there was the "porn stash" - prior to this, my wife had never even looked twice at a flash drive. It was simply buried amongst pencils, pins, rubber bands, paper clips installation CDs, etc. in the office desk. Finding it wouldn't have been so bad, but having all of them pop up at the store - that was bad.
Turnip Master wrote:
That is funny. Why don't you rename the files with a dummy extension? Like, instead of *.wmv or *.jpg you can just make up an extension like *.vmw or *.gpj. That way, Windows doesn't recognize the file and it won't appear when opened unless the user knows which software to open it with.
Not that I do this at home or anything
If you're really paranoid about people finding your stash (which you shouldn't be, every dude in the world has looked at porn at least a few times), look into truecrypt or similar free encryption software. With 256 bit AES encryption, your shit will not only be wife proof, but NSA proof too (well sort of, you'd have to take a lot of other measures to clean up the trail that lead to your encrypted file, which would actually be quite difficult, but why would the NSA want to look at your porn anyway?).
i wish i had a girlfriend
Every once in awhile you run across some really useful advice on this site.
That is why you should be doing all your running on concrete, son.
This must be a new gf. All gf eventually find porn on your computer either accidentally or because their curious.
I wouldn't feel bad about it at all. In fact, it's probably a good thing. A man should not need porn if his woman (gf or wifey) is doing her job, and yes, satisfying your man is part of your job, ladies. Now that she knows about your porn, she might be more sexually active with you to keep you from looking at it.
Tell her what Pete Townshend said when caught visiting child porn sites... you were doing "research"....let her know you are considering writing a book about the evils of on-line porn and are writing an "expose" on revealing what a blight on society on-line porn actually is. You are humanitarian and should be applauded.
bust wrote:
So I let me girlfriend use my computer for a minute last night and I forgot to exit out of a page that was X rated.
all she said was "what is this" I said what it was and left it at that. I did not have a good explanation really. ..
anyone else on here deal with a situation like this? I know you are all gay and probably dont even have a g/f to have this happen. . . just give some advice/info please!
The fact that you are ambivalent about spending your time on porn says good things about you. Junk in - junk out. Most of the posts above are from very immature individuals; not a criticism just an observation that they don't yet know too much about women or life. You are on the right track. If you truly care about your girlfriend, tell her that you were curious, a bit of a dope but are trying to man up and stop doing that crap. I'm fairly certain you will receive a very positive response.
I know she didn't see the website in your history but if she looks thru that maybe you should visit sites with non-porn sounding names. I found a good one just recently called crossc***ry.com. That is no joke!! Hahaha
Smelly wrote:
I know she didn't see the website in your history but if she looks thru that maybe you should visit sites with non-porn sounding names. I found a good one just recently called crossc***ry.com. That is no joke!! Hahaha
Lol wow...
and to the OP-if anything is should make your girlfriend feel guilty and she will service you more often.