Ok, I am not married, but I do plan on getting married in the future. There is a chick I dated for a solid year who is moving back to my area, and she is the sort of woman I would have stayed with and could envision something long term with, we ended because of pure geographical differences. I have had many healthy relationships as well as many periods in between those where I had many one night, two night, and three night stands, and to be honest I think a good combination is healthy. I do not believe it is healthy to only have long term relationships and never have a purely sexual and sexually adventurous relationship with a woman, and likewise, I would not want to only have sexual relationships.
I have issues with two of the themes posted here, the first enumerated by Flagpole. He says that women never have the sex drive that men do, but that is just flat out wrong. While some women may deny it, deep down every woman loves a good lay just as much a guy does. You would be shocked how many women have never had an orgasm, and for many of them its just damn hard. If they have never experienced sexual ectasy, it is more than possible they simply associate sex with unnecessary drama and physical pain. For guys that feel they might want to try something new to pleasure their babe, go buy a nice vibrator for her. It is not admitting defeat. I will admit it, I normally am able to make a girl I am with climax (some of them could be faking, I don't know), but there was one chick where I moves just didn't do it. I went out, purchased a vibrator, and she was screaming during our next f***. An orgasm feels just as nice to a woman (possibly better) as it does to a man, keep that in mind.
Women are sexual beings too, especially women in their 30s. Begging is simply unattractive to women, you need to display power, charm, and confidence. Tell her some story about how you busted the balls of some coworker, or just make up something if you have to that makes you sound like the man, she will love it (the women here will agree with me on this, that confidence is incredibly sexy). So you've hit your 30s or 40s, your body is no longer what it used to be, you've got to make up for that in other ways. If you are the type that begs, stop begging, think of other ways, begging is probably the worst way to get laid.
Ok, I hope that helps. I am experienced in sex and relationships, of course no relationship on the magnitude of marriage, but that is what I know about women and sex.
Mayeroff, now you. 78 pounds? Is that a good thing? She's either a midget or has no tits, no ass, and is borderline anorexic. I don't like thick chicks either, but I draw a line and manage to have standards. Also, have you gone to Thailand to get ass? There are only a few places outside of Africa that I would trust less than Thailand. You probably have some sort of Asian fetish or have some sort of pedophiliac fantasies (based on age, size, and manner of description of your sexual partners). I am guessing you routinely f*** women I wouldn't even touch, so I am not jealous, and nor should anyone else be. I don't think you are sick for wanting one night stands, I love them too, and they are part of maturing, but based on what I have read from you in this thread and others you seem unable to connect with women, which is a valuable life skill. Hopefully Thailand will help you grow up, but then again, I don't know you so, so I don't really give a shit. I mainly posted to try and convince these married guys that there is hope, and that the strategy of try and try again until you succeed only works if you find a method of trying that works.