Post-nuptial shutoff?

whaaaaaaaaat? wrote:

You don't need to be wed to go through tough times.

If "tough times" are to include her getting your house and half your income after denying you sex for years, yes you do.

yeah, it is one half cocaine, one half ecstasythat does the trick

Spankintothenet wrote:

I heard on the AM news that there is a "little blue pill" coming out for women soon that supposed to help with loss of intrest.

BTW I think there's something in the wedding cake.

I'll pass, I've seen too many guys go through that.

There's six billion people on this planet right now.

Overpopulation is a crucial topic but I don't see it being addressed in the endless primaries and debates.

Yeah, the wives need to just turn the other cheek when men cheat. We do it because of sex 90% of the time. Women cheat for other reasons. I'll never leave my wife and kids but I'd like to get a little sometime too. She says her lack of interest has nothing to do with love but I'd like a clinician or someone explain why a women who was once horny loses total interest in sex after having two kids. Is it physical or pychological for them?

Right after I got married a coworker who I thought was just being an a-hole at the time looked at me while holding up his hand and said "don't forget your best friend and how to use it". truer words were never spoken.

RLAA,

dude I just spit my lunch all over my computer screen-that was the funniest stuff I've read on here in freaking years!!

mac10 just consider yourself b1tch slapped!!

man, this is scaring me. i'm a single 26 year old guy with a few casual relationships and i'm averaging 2-4 times per week. once a month? jeez, i think i'd go crazy..

Cook dinner.

Clean the house.

Massage her.

Do all of these to the degree you can stand, be sincere, you'll get more nana then you could imagine.

What is this give her flowers, cook, clean and massage her and then maybe she'll let you have sex with her shite.

Be the man and go after what you want.

My gf told me before we got married that I could have it whenever I wanted and she considered it her duty to give it to me, even if at that time she wasn't into it. (BTW, she wasa a virgin when we married.)

Well, she's kept her word; sometimes she's not so interested so it's a quickie for me; other times she is interested and we spend a good time at it. Either way, it brings us closer together because afterwards we always have a nice talk and warm feeling - whereas on nights we don't do it, it's just back to back and sleep and she said she doesn't feel as close.

You are the man and the woman is looking for you to lead her. In other words, she wants you to wear the pants!

Of course, although I know I can ask for it whenever I want it, I do take her feelings into account. She has placed her love and trust in me; I value that and so treat her well.

i want a wife like that

>.>

Doing those things IS wearing the pants.

It's called fore play idiot!

That's how 99% of women work.

SEX BEGINS IN THE KITCHEN...for women, anyway. And in the cleaning and SHOWING THAT YOU CARE FOR HER AND SHE'S NOT JUST A LIVING BLOW-UP DOLL!

For men, it can begin anywhere under any circumstances.

I thank God I'm a man.

Head's up, it doesn't have to be sex all the time guys. The woman in your life deserves a break now and then:

Hey, it doesn't hurt to give your wife/girlfriend a back or neck or foot rub once in a while just because YOU want to do it, and it'll make her feel good to know you care.

Wash the dishes or do the damned laundry yourself once in a while, or take the kids (if you have any) to the movies by yourself and give her a break or night to herself now and then. If she married YOU, she DESERVES it...right?

Do it when you just want her to be happy and honestly don't have any hormonal urge, or if it looks like she's had a rough day.

A compliment now and then makes for a happier home, sex or not. It helps if you mean it.

I was married November 1, 2004. Haven't had sex since about mid-January 2005. So I guess it took about 10 weeks to be cut off.

Richard21142 wrote:

Marygold wrote:

I force myself to show an interest. I hate that I feel this way but he doesn't know that I do

Believe me, he knows. I say this as someone who has been married for 43 years.

I've only been married 25 years, not 43 years. If I had to force myself to show an interest for another 18 years I'll get hormone shots or something. I've only been doing this for about 3 years, so no, he doesn't know. Yet. A few more years and he might. I keep telling myself its due to the "change of life" (sorry guys) and I just need to work through it and get to the other side with my marriage intact.

Dang, that's a short shelf-life.

Well the divorce will be final soon. Hopefully I'll do better next time. I did keep my vows but my wrist got quite a workout. And I've got a great son!

Ouch!!! wrote:

Dang, that's a short shelf-life.

Mr. Decent wrote:

Six years and the gate slammed shut. During my routine physical at age 45, the doctor asked me if I had any "erectile dysfunction". I thought to myself, "Hell yeah, I've got a boner you could cut glass with and nowhere to put it, 'cause I'm married".

I actually envy my couch potato peers who need Viagra.

This is one of the funnies quotes i have read in a while. I could just picture myself or any guy saying this and the doctor going what did u say?

"next time"? You planning on repeating the past?

Wow.

Don't be scared. LEARN: Cold showers and intervals.

Remember, too, you can use the extra time for another daily run or research which stocks to sell short.

There are only so many hot women out there and there's lots of competition for them.

That's the way it is.