As a woman, I COMPLETELY agree with this post. My guy read books before I met him and I am thankful for that library. :) He cares if I orgasm and waits for me, every time. Usually makes sure it is more than once depending on how long we are going. But a lot of the time once is not enough for him. He understands my body, almost better than I do. You guys really have to want her to enjoy it and explain that. Orgasms are fun. If you do what you can to make sure she enjoys it, she may want it more. Communication is KEY.
and two pennies wrote:
Just a thought - are you guys lousy in bed? Not meant as a knock, but maybe if you improved the experience for the lady, they would be more apt to get down on it.
I don't want to get into a whole realm of sex tips and advice here but do you really know what you're doing?
I used to think I did, then I got with an honest girl who wasn't about to fake anything to make me feel better. We worked on sex (actually practiced), and now I'm much better. Go out and read a book, try some of the things, you never know.
Alex de Large wrote:
Haven't the folks in your camp ever thought the guys on here complaining would be willing to do anything to get their women to want/enjoy more sex? If that means reading books, going to seminars, earning a PhD in Sex Ed., asking what they can do to make it better for their wives, or going to work for hours at a time down low, then so be it. It's not like these guys are finding themselves locked out of the house, only to repeatedly try the same key in the door time and time again. There are a ton of guys out there trying every key they've ever owned, only to eventually find out the door's been padlocked from the inside.
(on another note - I guess this thread has inspired LetsRun's new slogan. Check the front page - good to see.)
Right, you're all such feminists. Funny how when it's a woman her husband is gay or having an affair. But when it's your wives they're just selfish.
Your relationship may be an exception. My ex-girlfriend found it almost impossible to initiate communication about anything important (both sex and non-sex topics). And I don't think it was because of me. She had major difficulties no matter who she was communicating with.
... and besides
it is a marriage, if something needs to be said it gets said... at least in our relationship... communication is constantly occurring
You got it. Anyone spending 10 minutes on the Letsrun message boards would reach that conclusion.
The one conclusion I reach from this discussion is that runners are just horn dogs (unless they overtrain of course).
Don't count on it...I thought the same thing. Now my kids are 22 & 18. Nothing has changed! Just to add to my post from page 2...I do all the cooking, grocery shopping, dishes and laundry. I run my own business and run 70 miles a week. She even hired a cleaning lady to come in once a week. Now there is nothing left for her to do!!! But, I Love her just the same....Looking on the bright side, she just asked me to pick up a bottle of wine!!!! Could it be???
not that it matters... wrote:
But like someone else said, my wife is my friend and I'm sure sex will pick up again once the kids are older and my wife isn't exhausted all the time.
Is your name Gavin Newsom?
unusual situation wrote:
I've been having an affair with my best friend's wife for 2 years. Does that make me a bad friend? The sex is way hotter than what I get at home.
and how many would that be?
Flagpole Willy wrote:
Trust me, all the women who have been with The Flagpole have enjoyed it tremendously.