Yeah, no one is suggesting that male trans-identified athletes should be excluded from sports, sports competition or other areas of life. We simply think they should be competing in/with their own sex or in an open division - and using the locker rooms, showers, toilets, etc of their own sex too.
If that doesn't suit them, then they should be campaigning for a new sports category and additional locker rooms, toilets and other facilities that are mixed sex and "gender neutral" for "all gender identities and presentations" - or, if they want, that are for the exclusive use of people with trans, non-binary and other special gender identities.
In the meantime, why can''t boys' and men's sports and spaces be made to be inclusive of, and welcoming to, all males? Why is all the onus on girls and women - and only on us?
Men like Wise Old Man and Hobby Jogger are having a field day imperiously deciding and discusssing amongst themselves just how much ground and fairness they think girls and women should be be forced to give up - and how much of our hard-won rights we should be compelled to sacrifice - in order to fulfill their wish to see males like Athena Ryan shoehorned into the female category - fair play, sportsmanship and women's rights be damned.
But it seems to me that men like them are the ones being bigoted and exclusionary here because of their stubborn refusal simply to accept, deal with and get over the fact that some guys wish they were the opposite sex and want to wear their hair, dress and alter their appearance so they can "present" in ways that are more in keeping with stereotypes of "femininity" than "masculinity."
Why can't men like Wise Old Man, Hobby Jogger and Aztec put their energy into making sure that males like Athena Ryan and Lia Thomas feel at home in male sports and male locker rooms?
Why can't they be the bigger men, so to speak, by showing the world that male people have the capacity to "be kind" and decent to those of their sex with gender identity issues by making them feel welcome and at home on their side of the fence instead of putting all the onus on girls and women by telling us that we're the ones who have to show kindness to males with gender issues by making room for them in our sports and spaces?