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1 year ago 11/27/2022 6:50pm EST

re: JustMe22

JustMe22 wrote:
1) Acknowledge that she is her own person with her own life. Being "too busy" may not be code for anything.
2) Acknowledge that you are interested in her and are taking her responses as a rebuff.
3) Decide what it is you really want, then pursue it.
If you just want to "hang out" to figure things out, here is some advice: Tell her, "I've noticed that you've been busy the last few times I asked you go hang out, and I'd like to know if you can fit me in your schedule sometime."
If you want to date her, just ask her out. Easier said then done, but if you do this, you will know where you stand.

Could you be any more of a beta?

1 year ago 11/27/2022 7:39pm EST

re: Vineyard Vines

Vineyard Vines wrote:
JustMe22 wrote:
1) Acknowledge that she is her own person with her own life. Being "too busy" may not be code for anything.
2) Acknowledge that you are interested in her and are taking her responses as a rebuff.
3) Decide what it is you really want, then pursue it.
If you just want to "hang out" to figure things out, here is some advice: Tell her, "I've noticed that you've been busy the last few times I asked you go hang out, and I'd like to know if you can fit me in your schedule sometime."
If you want to date her, just ask her out. Easier said then done, but if you do this, you will know where you stand.
Could you be any more of a beta?

Feeling better now that you got that off your chest?

1 year ago 11/27/2022 8:06pm EST

re: JackGarder

you didn't screw up, life is full of experiences and missed opportunities. if you truly like this girl be direct and up front with your intentions, otherwise do her and yourself a favor and move on. Confidence comes with more experience so hopefully next time a woman gives you an opening, you take it.

1 year ago 11/27/2022 8:42pm EST

re: ragingclue

ragingclue wrote:
you didn't screw up, life is full of experiences and missed opportunities. if you truly like this girl be direct and up front with your intentions, otherwise do her and yourself a favor and move on. Confidence comes with more experience so hopefully next time a woman gives you an opening, you take it.

This is true. You need these screw ups as stepping stones to more confidence. And don't feel bad, because no one learns everything at the same rate. Just take note of the obvious that men and women think completely different, as you see from what the sprinter girl said. You being hesitant or indecisive will make them assume you're blowing them off, and they'll move on to avoid embarrassment.

1 year ago 11/29/2022 9:30am EST

re: JackGarder

Listen Jack, to love and be love, is to feel the sun from both sides. When I was a boy I realized that women are the key to life. Just tell her you love her. Plain and simple. America runs on p*ssy.

1 year ago 11/29/2022 9:52am EST

re: sham69.

sham69. wrote:
JackGarder wrote:
No clue. Only thing I can think of is random intrusive thought, but it still seems weird to me that she would tell me she used to like me if she had no desire to speak to me at all. Seems to me like mixed signals, but I also know absolutely nothing about this, hence the asking for advice.
Impala31 explained it well. You didn't strike when the iron was hot and the window most likely closed.

Here is why this explanation is wrong. If someone is physically attracted to you, they dont turn it off because you "missed a window". They are still quite open to it. Now, if they closed the window because you are a jerk, then yes that figures in to physical attraction no doubt. But the laws of attraction are not a ledger. A chick wont poke herself in the eye to spite her face. If she likes ya she likes ya. Easy peasy way is to stop talkin' and ask her out on unequivacol date. Then you don't have to read tea leaves. If you get wishy washy feedback then its a game she is playing and that is not uncommon. Ive seen it many times.

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