rojo wrote:
cracking toast wrote:
I'm happy and married 20+ years. We have 4 kids, jobs, mortgage, etc. We have had problems and successes and still love each other. Love is choice and action, not exclusively feelings and orgasms - you can get those on Hallmark and P***hub. Marriage is commitment and work, but not much work. Its like spinning a bicycle wheel, once it is up to speed and functioning it doesn't take much to keep it going
Post of the year?
Why?
I'm married and happy (so far), but am a firm believer that everyone tells themselves what they need to justify their decisions and ongoing circumstances.