Hey everyone - I'm a decent (not necessarily national class, but an OTQ in the marathon in a few years is not at all out of the question) collegiate distance runner and contribute to my team's success.
I love running and my teammates for so many reasons. I love the camraderie, the opportunity it gives me to be mentally tough, etc.
However, training hard makes me weary beyond belief. I often wonder about all the other things I could do if I wasn't having to conserve energy for training. I also suspect all the miles lower my testosterone quite a bit - my sex drive is significantly higher when I'm in rest periods between seasons.
I also have recently come to the realization that I'd like to be more muscular - I think it'd help me out a lot with confidence with my interactions with women. I like that being a skinny distance runner has helped me to develop the sides of my personality that I may have neglected had I had an adonis type build, but being this skinny is starting to get old. The obvious problem is for me to get ripped, I'd need to drop the miles quite a bit. Even if I could put on a decent bit of muscle while doing the volume I'm doing, it wouldn't be great for my 5k/10k time.
I'd like advice from all of you on how to approach this mental dillemma.
I don't want to quit - again, I love my team (practice is often the best part of my day) and want to see what I can achieve with my remaining college seasons. Even if that wasn't true, I'd feel obligated to hold up my end of the commitment I made to my teammates and coaches. The problem is, I can't help thinking of graduating college and having more energy, libido, and a more attractive body as a result of reducing my running volume and increasing my weight lifting. This has really been occupyng my mind lately - I keep feeling like I won't be "manly" until then. I recognize that this is ridiculous but any sort of advice from people who have gone through similar struggles would be appreciated. I want to make sure I stay 100% engaged for the rest of my time running collegiate xc/track.