It's a competition - no one gets to run in a privileged lane. You seem entitled.
There may well be guys who are obsessed with beating woman, but you come off as obsessed with men who are obsessed with beating women. How do you know what all these hypercompetitive men are thinking? Maybe it's not all about you.
I can imagine that it's frustrating for you that there are people racing next to you that are not elite and (apparently from your other posts) have more foot speed at the end of the race. Did it ever occur to you that many of them are showing you a sign of respect?