what age did you ____ (slightly personal lol)??

a. 18

b. 18

c. 18

At 21 I've kissed 9 people, had three relationships (two casual, one serious), and been with 8 gals

Late bloomer here. Partially due to religious upbringing and being a little socially awkward.

a. 23

b. 25

c. 27

Being a late bloomer was hard and led to a lot of self-doubt and self-criticism.

My advice: don't be too hard on yourself. Get out of your house as much as possible. Join running clubs. Travel. Do interesting things. When you meet someone you're interested in, don't beat around the bush. Ask her out directly.

16

16

16

done done done wrote:

Late bloomer here. Partially due to religious upbringing and being a little socially awkward.

a. 23

b. 25

c. 27

Being a late bloomer was hard and led to a lot of self-doubt and self-criticism.

My advice: don't be too hard on yourself. Get out of your house as much as possible. Join running clubs. Travel. Do interesting things. When you meet someone you're interested in, don't beat around the bush. Ask her out directly.

This ^

And if/when rejected, put that behind you never to revisit. It's a very big world out there, experience it.

17 for all of the above.

12

14 (too young, regret)

15 (definitely too young, regret)

For whatever reason, I attracted older, more curious girls who dictated all of the above.

Haven’t done any of the three for the past decade. Never learned how to assert myself.

justcurious22 wrote:

feeling like I'm the only one who hasn't been in a relationship, had their first kiss/lost their V card.

so lets run, assure me I'm not the only one (or confirm that I am).

What age did you?

a. have your first kiss?

b. have your first girlfriend/boyfriend?

c. lose your virginity?

I know it's not a "race' but cmon I'm 19 and I can't answer a, b, or c.

Lol!

a. Don't remember.

b. Jr. yr h.s..3 gals one year, concurrently!

c. 1954, Gal in an alley outside a jazz club at 7th and T Street, Washington D. C. 12:15 am. Remembered.

Dude, you're like 500 years old?

a. 15 or 16, honestly can't remember

b. 16 for sure

c. 16 or 17, it was with my first girlfriend though and I believe it was a couple weeks before my 16th birthday

my two pennies wrote:

a. 15 or 16, honestly can't remember

b. 16 for sure

c. 16 or 17, it was with my first girlfriend though and I believe it was a couple weeks before my 16th birthday

*17th birthday

Buttttt you need to get going. Women are mostly nothing but stress. Tinder is your friend.

A. 5

B. 5

C. 5 lol just kidding. 14 and I was honestly one of the last of my group of friends. Know a bunch of guys that were middle schoolers lol. Which sounds crazy now.

no longer a virgin wrote:

a. 14

b. 17

c. 22

Only had s*x with one woman, who is now my wife. I don't feel like I missed out on anything. I did get sh*t on quite a bit by my college teammates though, lol.

That is kinda sweet and nope didn't miss anything except drama and heartache. I often think I could have been one and done. I still have infrequent contact with my first and she's still so beautiful and kind and I feel special being in her presence. Oh well..

A.16

B. 18

C.18

a. 11

b. 11

c. 16

you need to talk to a professional. not about sex, I don't think that's really a good idea for you, but about your mental health. you seriously don't sound well.

llort_vbo wrote:

dumbassMF wrote:

Ha ha, I wouldn't know what they were paying for the room.

Pro tip, bring some coke with you, then you're a baller not a loser.

The range of T levels in this thread is greater than in the RIo 800m final. You have everything from beta/incel/virgins to red-meat eating degenerates who like to ski off of strippers’ backs. You have at least one tattoo that you regret, right?

Incels like yourself. LOL

~15

~15

25

did a lot of "everything but" but never went all the way til long after college

Seem very shut in. Do you at least walk on a treadmill?

Reminds me of this:

A.) idk yet

B.) idk yet

C.) idk yet

I’m 20

It doesn’t really bother me actually, I genuinely have no desire to hook up with a girl or even have sex. Back in high school I wanted to way more than I do now. I would like to find my wife tho. But that’s ok I can be patient.

Also, I’m not like super shy or really unattractive or anything, it just hasn’t happened. The problem is I always try to be friends with a girl first, which is absolutely not the way to do it, but I’m not really willing to change. I reckon I’ll just wait till there is a girl that does want that.

Really? The guy decides to open up and be vulnerable when he doesn’t have to, and this is what you have to say to him? And when he’s doing it for the sake of a kid who asked him to quell his insecurities? You must have some serious issues if you felt that you needed to drag him down after reading his post. Absolutely disgusting.