what age did you ____ (slightly personal lol)??

llort_vbo wrote:

dumbassMF wrote:

C'mon dude, if you're in their filthy long term rental hotel room, you start to sober up a little, and see yourself in the mirror... that's some serious reflection!

I think everyone should experience it at least 20 times.

You haven't stayed at the Day's Inn on Route 38 in Camden NJ , have you? Cause that's what that memory sounds like. $350 per week and no questions.

Ha ha, I wouldn't know what they were paying for the room.

Pro tip, bring some coke with you, then you're a baller not a loser.

I just read this wrote:

A & B super early. C at age 17 but worth the wait. Still the most beautiful girl I had ever even seen.

Same except C at 21. Never dated in jr. high or high school. Accumulation for C is way up there, at least double what I'd consider healthy. I used it to deal with poor self-worth through my 20s and 30s. I won't say it wasn't great fun, though. There was a real price to pay, yet nothing like SpectrumSmith's dramatic, self-righteous list. Went without for a few years until about the time I started dating my wife. Now my drive is kaput yet my wife wants me all the time. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Anyway, OP, the excitement of connection is underrated. Just think of it as a process of connecting with someone attractive rather than some goalpost moment.

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tarckstar wrote:

Mid Age Guy wrote:

Sex in the good ol' USA is so stigmatized because of wacko religions that this is a hard issue for a lot of youths. My answers:

a. 16

b. 17

c. 19

Same girl I first kissed, we officially started dating the next year, and after my first year back from college we had sex (we went to different universities but stayed a couple for over a decade).

But once that relationship fell to pieces I was 29 and getting into another relationship has been a real challenge. Being single in your 30s ain't fun.

Yeah, dude, did you think at any point during that decade maybe it was time to do something?

wtf do you even mean lol? It was still the first and only girl I had ever dated, I'm not some religious idiot that HAS TO COMMIT. I was in my 20s, I started work after college at a very successful start-up that required 60hrs/week. She went on with school to get a doctorate. We just grew apart, life happens sometimes.

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Some of these responses are… interesting. And seem to either undersell or just don’t understand how great sex can be when you find someone you have sexual chemistry with, especially if that person is even a little bit adventurous.

To the original poster, finding this partner takes time, especially since the ability to develop next-level sexual chemistry and know-how comes from experience and maturity.

For me, I was a virgin until 18. First girlfriend 21. First kiss 16.

It took me until my mid 30s to find that next level chemistry with someone. I’m married to her now, and we have two kids but still flirt and have sex regularly. We make our sex life a priority and take steps to make sure it stays healthy as life demands more of us between kids and other new responsibilities.

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I was homeschooled, so needless to say the options before college were limited. I hit the ground running when I got there tho...

King Vitamin wrote:

Some of these responses are… interesting. And seem to either undersell or just don’t understand how great sex can be when you find someone you have sexual chemistry with, especially if that person is even a little bit adventurous.

To the original poster, finding this partner takes time, especially since the ability to develop next-level sexual chemistry and know-how comes from experience and maturity.

For me, I was a virgin until 18. First girlfriend 21. First kiss 16.

It took me until my mid 30s to find that next level chemistry with someone. I’m married to her now, and we have two kids but still flirt and have sex regularly. We make our sex life a priority and take steps to make sure it stays healthy as life demands more of us between kids and other new responsibilities.

Bull freaking crap on some of this...

If you make sex a priority then you like sex more than your offspring.

If you need a healthy sex life after having kids then you're not devoted to your kids.

Your whole post talked about sex and not what you wanted for your kids.

You and your wife are too depraved for your kids.

We seriously need background checks for potential parents...imprisonment for any parent who conceived and has a record.

The good people deserve that

Tl;dr only good parents should have kids. Tattoos, cigarettes, alcoholics, excons, current cons, party people, addicts should not be allowed conception at risk of massive time.

Only the smart and educated need kids.

THE rest need a penal colony.

justcurious22 wrote:

What age did you?

a. have your first kiss?

b. have your first girlfriend/boyfriend?

c. lose your virginity?

a. 8 or 9

b. 15

c. 15

A. 18

B. 18

C.18

All to the same girl who is now my fiancée!

kissmeonthelips wrote:

A. 18

B. 18

C.18

All to the same girl who is now my fiancée!

Just don't kill her if you go on a holiday and you might get to marry her as well!!!

a. First kiss: 12 or 13 playing "Spin the Bottle" or some such kissing game at one of those junior high parties we'd have in the late 70s

b. First girlfriend: 18 in college a few months after c

c. Lose virginity: 18 in college. it was a drunken dorm room hookup with a random girl who ended up sleeping with about a dozen of my friends over the next couple of years

Stoppit Smith wrote:

Bull freaking crap on some of this...

If you make sex a priority then you like sex more than your offspring.

If you need a healthy sex life after having kids then you're not devoted to your kids.

Your whole post talked about sex and not what you wanted for your kids.

You and your wife are too depraved for your kids.

We seriously need background checks for potential parents...imprisonment for any parent who conceived and has a record.

The good people deserve that

Tl;dr only good parents should have kids. Tattoos, cigarettes, alcoholics, excons, current cons, party people, addicts should not be allowed conception at risk of massive time.

Only the smart and educated need kids.

THE rest need a penal colony.

I'm getting the sense that you are not a candidate for a relationship even if you want one, and it's not because you're day and ugly. You are seriously out of touch with humanity.

dumbassMF wrote:

Ha ha, I wouldn't know what they were paying for the room.

Pro tip, bring some coke with you, then you're a baller not a loser.

The range of T levels in this thread is greater than in the RIo 800m final. You have everything from beta/incel/virgins to red-meat eating degenerates who like to ski off of strippers’ backs. You have at least one tattoo that you regret, right?

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16 (but it was just sex to have sex.

We'll never know because I don't want one.

Not wanting a relationship is my humanity.

I finally lost my vagina!

https://youtu.be/lQlIhraqL7o

Sham 69 wrote:

I finally lost my vagina!

https://youtu.be/lQlIhraqL7o

Wait, sorry..what?

You're the one who posts your fetish fantasies for your cousin and shares a bed with her.

It's sick if it's real.

But it it's a sham, the fact that those thoughts come out of your mind is despicable at best.

You're not one to weigh in on someone's sexuality or lack thereof.

llort_vbo wrote:

dumbassMF wrote:

Ha ha, I wouldn't know what they were paying for the room.

Pro tip, bring some coke with you, then you're a baller not a loser.

The range of T levels in this thread is greater than in the RIo 800m final. You have everything from beta/incel/virgins to red-meat eating degenerates who like to ski off of strippers’ backs. You have at least one tattoo that you regret, right?

Yes, the range of responses is hilarious.

I evolved into a highly respected professional which may not have been possible if I had tattoos or a FB account...