["Does to me, don’t know about you but 14 miles even at ‘easy pace’ still feels tough by the end, then do 6 at HMP which on its own is pretty hard, 20 in total, that’s a hard days training and would eat into subsequent days runs.[/quote]"
Those last words seem to confuse the objective which is to race a marathon at optimum marathon pace rather than push harder in 'subsequent days runs'. Selectively these big long runs where combo of pace and distance is demanding and likely means that the next 3-4 days are spent in recovery running rebuilding to next hard effort are there to optimise the marathon race, and the subsequent easier days aren't a 'problem', they facilitate the end result.
fwiw as a long ago serial 2.30/2.35-odd runner I almost never did any structured MP, just lots of miles including range of faster 3k/5k/10k/AT) and slower stuff. I reckon this gap maybe cost me c 4 mins in my PB, no science to support that. Less than 2%, more than zero. Hardly a step change but a 'nice to have'.
I now coach many quicker people and I don't see how you can expect to really master the 6 final miles of the 26.2 without something that starts to train your body, and mind, and the link between the two, on what is going to happen with your energy consumption (carbs/fat allocation ) at that point. Too fast/too long and you break down and you get injured or leave your race in training. the classic 20m at MP is borderline on this imo - i reckon it as about 3 to 3.5mins slower than a 20 mile race, all things being equal- the runner has to be astute to this distinction. too slow/too short and you are undercooked - not by much admittedly. Some of the posts with their binary do you/don't you stance are just weak - it's obviously a nuanced blend as several have pointed out.