The feedback from an anonymous poster on a message board should never factor into a decision or opinion about coaches that clearly represent some of the most successful programs in the country.
Your son is becoming an adult and if he's being recruited by these programs then he is clearly good enough to be able to interact with them over email, phone, and on a visit. Please don't be the parent that hovers throughout the entire process to navigate it for your child. I'm not saying that you are or that you intend to, just that whenever I have recruited an athlete whose parents do that they quickly fall behind other recruits in our interest levels.
Allow your kid to research them. Encourage them to lead the recruiting conversation. Hope that they have the opportunity to make mistakes along the way to learn from. I can't imagine the thought of my mother or father coming up to me one day and saying, "I read from a very helpful anonymous source that coach XYZ is not going to be a good fit for you."
We can't provide any feedback more valuable than what your son learns from being engaged in the recruiting process as he talks with coaches and his future teammates. Please don't be that parent.
- A Division I College Coach