do you do this wrote:
Do you occasionally look at your ex wife or girlfriend's page via your Facebook or a fake Facebook because you blocked them or they blocked you, even though you have long moved on and hate them? I have been remarried a year or so now, but l occasionally look at my ex's Facebook just to see what they're up to. My current wife is mad at me for doing it, but l tell her l hate them. I just like to see all the drama they post or so on. It's entertaining and l don't talk to them or are Facebook friends with them either.
If it’s a true relationship,
it always meant something
And likely a microcosm of life in all its glory,
especially for people of intensity and passion like runners.
People look for worldly social and spiritual fulfillment in their relationships. True monogamy is a heart wrenching thing, like all the milestones of life, like birth family children aging and death.
Thus unless you are very fulfilled and reached your destiny, being indifferent and getting over your exes is disappointing because of all the innumerable names of great things that used to be there. Moving forward healthfully it seems should be a dialectic where you incorporate into your build the good of those past relationships, like a level in a building.
One can be vigilant of any negatives that happened and remain for the sake of being practical, just and spiritually elevated.
But it’s unhealthy and unproductive to get consumed by consumed by anger and competition. Most everyone faces these pitfalls all through life.
Remember, at the core, the life of love and its preservation is the reason for struggle and fighting in the first place. So then one must ultimately remember the good and keep reaching for it and affirming it.
Life is about, indeed, recurrent eternal things that we return to again and again. Sometimes achieving success is difficult and burdensome because we still need to return to it and then life is rediscovery.
Thus, monogamy and love is at the deepest level of life and, as the elders say, we will struggle with our faith and undergo this process of trial and return over and over, with the magic, hardship and true worry that comes with fate and destiny.
Naturally our mates bring new genetics to the table and sometimes encapsulate the whole world for us, reminding us of siblings, parents, grandparents and childhood best friends. Naturally Shared passions, shared social groups and life milestones create the most intense, stressful and yet fulfilling fateful bonds.
When one examines psychological and genetic parameters of our great mates, it underscores the continual human quest for meaning and to belong. To reach a golden state on many levels.
Ultimately, the games we play in life and performances we make are most fulfilling when we can align our expression in some purpose for the community and our close relationships.
Thus, checking up on an ex, eager for something but never getting it, may be a symptom and sign of unhealth in the wider community, in both ourselves and others.
Perhaps we [i{and them are falling short and our jobs, community, activities and relationships are not getting us to where we need to go. This happens intermittently and it’s part of the continual struggle of life, even for the best of us.
Thus, we need to be productive, reflective and return continually to our source and to eternal things.
If anything romantic angst is a good sign. It means you are trying and give your utmost, realize your potential and are showing up for life.