Do you see what your ex is up to on Facebook even if you have moved on and hate them

If you hate your ex, you haven't moved on.

the opposite of love is indifference wrote:

If you hate your ex, you haven't moved on.

Came here to to make the exact same reply.

boomheadshot wrote:

the opposite of love is indifference wrote:

If you hate your ex, you haven't moved on.

Came here to to make the exact same reply.

Well that might not be the correct word. But do you ever look at what they're doing so you can say to yourself," l am in a much better place now"? Or maybe just for entertainment?

I used to check up on my ex-girlfriend status. She ended up marrying a less-attractive, less-successful look-a-like to me. This made me happy - she never got over me and had to settle for less. I truly wish them the best though.

do you do this wrote:

Do you occasionally look at your ex wife or girlfriend's page via your Facebook

Nah, dude. That's totally lame.

And you have a "current wife" ??? Haha come on. The existence of your ex ladies shouldn't even come to mind. Gone and forgotten is what they are.

I very rarely look at her page, but I do go on her new husbands page. mainly to say- HaHa what a fool. He likes to post his 10:30 pace 2 mile runs etc. Her page is pretty boring and I consider her poisonous, so avoid it.

To be honest, no..I've never had a date, girlfriend or ex.

BUT I have found certain runners on let's run and seen their accounts.

I don't facebook so I can't post...

But I definitely know who I dislike for real.

That's more powerful.

It's in the past, man. It's in the past. Leave it behind. Especially since you've remarried.

We divorced several years ago. Hurt like h3ll. I blocked her not so she couldn't see me, but so I wouldn't accidentally see what she's doing and dwell on it. Life is much easier having no clue what she's up to.

Stoppit Smith wrote:

To be honest, no..I've never had a date, girlfriend or ex.

BUT I have found certain runners on let's run and seen their accounts.

I don't facebook so I can't post...

But I definitely know who I dislike for real.

That's more powerful.

Your life is defined and empowered by those you hate?

I'm coming off a fresh breakup. Facebook still finds the need to notify me every time my ex posts something and I can't help but look.

China Joe wrote:

I'm coming off a fresh breakup. Facebook still finds the need to notify me every time my ex posts something and I can't help but look.

You can "unfollow" someone on Facebook. You're still friends, but you will never see anything they post in the FB feed. And they have no way of knowing you unfollowed them.

The sooner you can move on, the better. You're just spinning your wheels wasting time going nowhere in the meanwhile dwelling on her.

Facebook is for attention seeking losers. Get a life.

I blocked everybody from my past that's I don't want to think about. Everybody that I went to high school with is blocked. I'm not fb friends with anybody from undergrad. I have about 140 fb friends and double that number blocked. Try it out. It's interesting how fast you forget about people sometimes. But you probably don't want to be like me. I've been in a dark place for a long time.

I also rarely use fb now. Mostly Instagram. I know fb owns them.

I left facebook because of that a few years ago, and I never went back. It took me a year of various social media stalking though. Totally embarrassing now. I've been with my current girlfriend for two years now and she has a creepy ex-boyfriend that keeps calling and messaging her after 3 years. I was over at her place on Christmas and he showed up at the door. I answered the door and he said "sorry, wrong place" and left. Once he showed up and stood outside her bedroom window for hours. I have been in situations where it was hard to let go but after experiencing this side of it and seeing how this guy looks, I would never do that again.

No.

I have held on to the hope that my ex would find someone to hook up with and be happy.

No. Don't do this.

drunk runner. wrote:

Facebook is for attention seeking losers. Get a life.

So true. I would love to delete my Facebook except I am in several groups that are actually helpful to me in my profession.

My ex isn't on facebook.