Are you just a jogger with no plans to get in top shape at some point? Is running just something that you do from time to time or did from time to time? Or is it basically a major part of your life? Do most things revolve around you getting in top shape and you are like Rocky, beating yourself up, so when the time is right, and you're in shape, you can kick butt. Are 85 percent of your friends runners or ran at some point? Or are most of your friends fat and never ran? Does your wife run or ran at some point?