Dear millennial men: please stop buying into the lie that you need to be more like a woman if you want to attract women

YersiniaPestis wrote:

Anyone straying away from the most basic "likes" is just settling.

Yeah that makes no sense, people have different preferences. For example, some men like short hair because they don't like the look or because long hair gets everywhere, including but not limited to, the floor, food, the shower, your asscrack, etc. I personally like long but not too long hair but you'll find plenty of guys who like short hair. And the same goes for almost anything, people like what they like, however weird or conventional it is.

The fact that women had no rights and no power for many years conditioned their attraction. The only way for a women to be successful was to marry a successful man. That's why women are more mentally stimulated when it comes to attraction. In a lot of cases you don't even have to be a good looking guy at all. You just have to meet her emotional needs and make her feel good and comfortable around you.

ordering more wings wrote:

The fact that women had no rights and no power for many years conditioned their attraction. The only way for a women to be successful was to marry a successful man. That's why women are more mentally stimulated when it comes to attraction. In a lot of cases you don't even have to be a good looking guy at all. You just have to meet her emotional needs and make her feel good and comfortable around you.

But she wants to f--k the 6'2 guy with muscles.

nike shill wrote:

YersiniaPestis wrote:

Anyone straying away from the most basic "likes" is just settling.

Yeah that makes no sense, people have different preferences. For example, some men like short hair because they don't like the look or because long hair gets everywhere, including but not limited to, the floor, food, the shower, your asscrack, etc. I personally like long but not too long hair but you'll find plenty of guys who like short hair. And the same goes for almost anything, people like what they like, however weird or conventional it is.

This YersiniaPestis fellow probably has next to no capacity for critical thought.

YersiniaPestis wrote:

We are hard wired to be attracted to certain things, and it cuts cultural, religious, and racial lines.

Women like tall (but not too tall) muscular chest, arms, smart, hard working. (They have to know you are good at SOMETHING, even distance running counts.)

Men like boobs, butts, long hair, youth (or youthful looking)

Anyone straying away from the most basic "likes" is just settling.

I think quite a few of us have to just "settle" for a partner if you don't want to be single all your life. Decades ago, I got tired of being rejected from attractive women. I got tired of being single and looked at as a "loser" and wanting to get married and have a family, I settled for someone that I wasn't all that attracted to.

Though I had a good job making decent money, owning a home and driving a nice car and all that, I had some physical flaws that attractive women don't like. First of all, I'm not best looking dude on the block. Lol. Secondly, at 5-6 with a distance runner built, I'm considered a runt to a lot of women. Too short, too thin and not good looking enough was why my resume got rejected so many times.

These beautiful women always said I was "charming" and a "real nice guy" and many wanted to put me in their friend zone. ? But at the end of the day, most attractive women want a hot guy who's good looking and tall with a very muscular built. And of course, a good job, nice car, nice home, etc, will also be on their check list.

There's a lot of dogs out there 2 b fair. Millennial men are more choosy.

sharer of wisdom wrote:

Society has lied to you. Sensitive and effeminate is not attractive to females. Don't be afraid to be a man.

Who told you that? No one has said that to me.

YersiniaPestis wrote:

We are hard wired to be attracted to certain things, and it cuts cultural, religious, and racial lines.

Women like tall (but not too tall) muscular chest, arms, smart, hard working. (They have to know you are good at SOMETHING, even distance running counts.)

Men like boobs, butts, long hair, youth (or youthful looking)

Anyone straying away from the most basic "likes" is just settling.

Poor guy. Never been in love. Not looking for a partner, per se, just a meatbag with the right proportions that he can drop his loads into.

Here's my take wrote:

I think quite a few of us have to just "settle" for a partner if you don't want to be single all your life. Decades ago, I got tired of being rejected from attractive women. I got tired of being single and looked at as a "loser" and wanting to get married and have a family, I settled for someone that I wasn't all that attracted to.

Wow, your wife is one lucky lady!

We're both pretty lucky - one unattractive person deserves another! ?

https://youtu.be/Y1ZJiBHh-Yw

Truth is Here wrote:

YersiniaPestis wrote:

We are hard wired to be attracted to certain things, and it cuts cultural, religious, and racial lines.

Women like tall (but not too tall) muscular chest, arms, smart, hard working. (They have to know you are good at SOMETHING, even distance running counts.)

Men like boobs, butts, long hair, youth (or youthful looking)

Anyone straying away from the most basic "likes" is just settling.

Poor guy. Never been in love. Not looking for a partner, per se, just a meatbag with the right proportions that he can drop his loads into.

so you dont like girls with big boobs and a nice booty? or you just want to white knight? you never really said anything to refute anything in the post.

I think women and men do have some fairly universal things they are attracted to, its why Men's health always has something about Flat Abs, and Womens mags talk about getting theri butts in shape. Its just what we like.

The white knights are strong on this thread.

Keeponfoodtruckin wrote:

Truth is Here wrote:

Poor guy. Never been in love. Not looking for a partner, per se, just a meatbag with the right proportions that he can drop his loads into.

so you dont like girls with big boobs and a nice booty? or you just want to white knight? you never really said anything to refute anything in the post.

I think women and men do have some fairly universal things they are attracted to, its why Men's health always has something about Flat Abs, and Womens mags talk about getting theri butts in shape. Its just what we like.

I didn't say that, dumdum. Yes, everybody likes nice boobs and butts. But saying that you "settled" if your partner does not have pornstar proportions is sociopathic. There more important things in life than perfect double d tits, believe it or not.

LOL at the irony of you digging up this thread that hasn't been posted on in a couple of days to take character shots at someone ELSE.

In the 70's ad agencies tried to push the "sensitive male" bit, guys going around wearing man purses.