Dear millennial men: please stop buying into the lie that you need to be more like a woman if you want to attract women

Millennials are starting to turn 40. Try updating your clichés gramps.

OH...TX wrote:

Millennials are starting to turn 40. Try updating your clichés gramps.

yeah, and I'd say a greater percentage of them are 40 and unmarried than any generation before them.

browski wrote:

OH...TX wrote:

Millennials are starting to turn 40. Try updating your clichés gramps.

yeah, and I'd say a greater percentage of them are 40 and unmarried than any generation before them.

So . . . they have no interest in being owned by some woman (as the effeminate older generation let happen to them). And your point would be ?

what if we want to attract lesbians

Nobody is a real man their rhetorical abilities are garbage they don’t know the old fathers or old languages they don’t preserve the old ways and manners and dialects.

A real man would write and preserve all knowledge wisdom and virtue in treatises for his posterity kin and beloveds and nations.

None of you do this while you carve up the disciplines for yourselves.

browski wrote:

OH...TX wrote:

Millennials are starting to turn 40. Try updating your clichés gramps.

yeah, and I'd say a greater percentage of them are 40 and unmarried than any generation before them.

Exactly.

And if there was a way to keep stats on such a thing, they would shatter the record for the number of times some dude declared in exasperation "It doesn't make sense that I can't get a date. I'm such a nice guy!" Well, ace, it's because you've been taught that weak = nice.

OH...TX wrote:

Millennials are starting to turn 40. Try updating your clichés gramps.

A 40-year-old would be a young Gen Xer. Millennials are currently in their 20's and 30's.

Genius. I cant believe i didnt realize all women are exactly alike! And so are all men! Get this man an honorary PhD, STAT!

Sir, I would like to nominate you for the presidential medal of freedom. Just like luminary Rush Limbaugh. Your contributions to knowledge are truly unmatched.

sharer of wisdom wrote:

Society has lied to you. Sensitive and effeminate is not attractive to females. Don't be afraid to be a man.

So what is YOUR definition of a man?

Wearing a ball hat in a restaurant, wearing camo, and spitting on the floor.

There is middle ground you know.

And wouldn't I trust the opinion of a female long before yours? And yes, I can tell from your post that you are not a female or even truthful. Just trying to stir things up and that can be fun.

Hardloper wrote:

OH...TX wrote:

Millennials are starting to turn 40. Try updating your clichés gramps.

A 40-year-old would be a young Gen Xer. Millennials are currently in their 20's and 30's.

Someone who turns 40 today is a millennial, i.e. born in 1981.

sharer of wisdom wrote:

And if there was a way to keep stats on such a thing, they would shatter the record for the number of times some dude declared in exasperation "It doesn't make sense that I can't get a date. I'm such a nice guy!" Well, ace, it's because you've been taught that weak = nice.

Umm, the guys who are saying "I'm such a nice guy" rarely ever are, they are typically too blind to see their flaws and are actually pretty crappy guys. Truly nice guys have zero issues getting dates with high quality women.

Progressive men have always been soft and weak.

"Free" Daycare

"Free" Universal Income

"Free" Healthcare

"Someone please make me a sandwich"

"Open Borders"

"Please PAY OFF my college loans. I just can't make the payment"

"Wipe my A$$"

"Free" Food Stamps and Section 8 housing

"Lock DOWN THE CITY.......Someone has the flu"

"I am confused about my gender"

This is the way.

sharer of wisdom wrote:

Society has lied to you. Sensitive and effeminate is not attractive to females. Don't be afraid to be a man.

I've noticed that the guys who say stuff like this are, almost without fail, manlets who have no business telling other people what is masculine or attractive to women. The idea that American men are being conditioned to be effeminate is absurd and I encourage you to consider what this irrational fear that manly men are disappearing might suggest about you.

Truth is Here wrote:

sharer of wisdom wrote:

Society has lied to you. Sensitive and effeminate is not attractive to females. Don't be afraid to be a man.

I've noticed that the guys who say stuff like this are, almost without fail, manlets who have no business telling other people what is masculine or attractive to women. The idea that American men are being conditioned to be effeminate is absurd and I encourage you to consider what this irrational fear that manly men are disappearing might suggest about you.

try not saying this like a Poindexter

wazzu1452 wrote:

Progressive men have always been soft and weak.

"Free" Daycare

"Free" Universal Income

"Free" Healthcare

"Someone please make me a sandwich"

"Open Borders"

"Please PAY OFF my college loans. I just can't make the payment"

"Wipe my A$$"

"Free" Food Stamps and Section 8 housing

"Lock DOWN THE CITY.......Someone has the flu"

"I am confused about my gender"

I'm quite progressive. The only one of those I want to take for myself is the sandwich. I freaking love sandwiches.

But I do agree with:

- a universal minimum income (its called unemployment and welfare...)

- free Healthcare (its called Medicare and madicaide...)

- free daycare (already exists in many states, and is very effective at keeping poor people from being forced to quit their jobs, so they actually stay off of welfare and its much cheaper than providing welfare. The states without it end up with higher crime and higher rates of welfare)

- somebody making me a sandwich (who wouldn't want a sandwich?)

- open borders (yeah, nobody actually wants fully open borders. You're making things up. But us progressives want reasonable requirements to come in, rather than the current convoluted mess that favors rich people only)

- pay off student loans (the program to forgive loans to those in public service for 10+ years exists. The problem is it was poorly implemented, so only 1% of teachers, cops, doctors, firefighters, veteranarians etc who should qualify actually get approved. So yeah, fix that program so more talented people go into those programs currently struggling to find people, resulting in a percentage of incompetent people being allowed to remain in those fields)

- wipe my @$$. Im not sure what this means, so I guess I'm not for this one.

- food stamps and section 8: yeah, these programs work great, theyre much cheaper than dealing with homeless people in your neighborhood. We should expand them.

- I'm confused about my gender: well, I'm not personally confused. But if somebody is, I'll call them whatever they want to be called. Why should that offend me or bother me? IDGAF. You must lack confidence in your own sexuality/gender if it bothers you.

Bad Wigins wrote:

Truth is Here wrote:

I've noticed that the guys who say stuff like this are, almost without fail, manlets who have no business telling other people what is masculine or attractive to women. The idea that American men are being conditioned to be effeminate is absurd and I encourage you to consider what this irrational fear that manly men are disappearing might suggest about you.

try not saying this like a Poindexter

Guys who talk tough all the time are insecure in their manhood. It reaks of incel culture.

This is a stupid argument.

If you want to attract the right woman, be yourself, and find someone who you like, and who likes who you are.

Now, if you have a $hitty personality, then you might need to work on some things first.