LRC goon wrote:
Your friend seems to have some issues with gatekeeping what it means to be a woman as well. Can women compete after menopause? etc etc. It sounds like your friend just wants to remain in her protected class as she understands it - there isn't much of an ideological bent to her statement, it's just how she feels. She is still a member of the more powerful group (sexually female, designated by a doc at birth) that is making up the rules about whether to even allow the less powerful group (trans women) to participate.
My friend is the "one with problem"? My god I can't believe I'm reading that.
You are trying to exaggerate what she's saying. She's not saying a post-menopausal women isn't a woman or that someone on birth-control isn't a woman. But she's saying society is denying the unique gift that women's body's were designed for - giving birth. The wide hips, etc slows them down in sports but lets the human race survive.
Will you not admit the #1 difference between a man and a woman biologically is that a women's body is designed to give birth? Every month for about 25 years generally their body prepares itself for the possibility of a fertilized egg being used. A trans women will NEVER have a period.
Yet in the year 2020 if someone points this basic fact out, people like you come on here and say they are the onse with the "gatekeeping problem" or imply they are saying post-menopausal women or women on birth control or infertile women aren't real women. Give me a break.
She hasn't said a damn thing to me about who can identify as what. I am 99.999999% she's all for people doing whatever the hell they want in private (I've heard her tell me how she thinks two loving gay parents would be great for a child ).
It's kind of like the mask debate . You don't want wear a mask? Fine, don't wear one at home. But in the grocery store, since it might impact others, we want you to wear a mask. Same thing here. You want to identify as a woman? That's cool but if you are going to take a scholarship away from someone on the women's team or play pro sports and take a paycheck away from a biological female, then no that's not ok.
She's very pro-women but acknowledges there are biological differences between men and women. She did say once something along the lines, "As if biological men haven't done enough to keep biological women down over the years, now they are coming to take our sports."
The reality is the physiological differences between men and women is real otherwise the men's world records wouldn't be way better than the women's.