doin it wrote:
ReplierMan wrote:
The original post and replies scream troll post, but I will bite.
She was wrong to comment. If she is actually worried about the child's safety, she needs to call the police.
This is why the “defund the police” movement has risen. This is a parent/child interaction. If anything is wrong, Child Services should be contacted. You know, people who are actually educated specifically for evaluating and determining the best way forward for the child. Not the Police who’s purpose is to deal with actual illegal criminal action.
He/she came back and specified that police was the wrong word to use, but to take your point and run with it... maybe all we need is a bunch of psychologists and therapists running around scolding people for their bad behavior. That will fix everything!!!
Anecdote: We were at my daughter's soccer game this past weekend, and the rules are super strict right now. Masks on the sidelines, six-foot distancing on the sidelines, all the normal stuff. My 4-year-old son was tired, cranky, and hot, and he was having none of it. He was throwing a tantrum and hitting my wife. It was a the end of a long day in which he'd been a pill for most of it. He was pulling his mask off and running away, into other people, screaming that he wanted a Gatorade from the machine in the clubhouse. This went on for about 15 minutes before I took him by the arm and whisper-yelled that he was going to get a spanking if he didn't behave. FWIW, I would never really spank him. I probably looked like a real jerk to someone seeing this out of context, but you can't just let your kid run roughshod all over you.
Then I realized it was probably better that one of us just take him back to the car, so I took him back, got him some water, and we listened to music together in the car. He fell asleep and I missed the game, but it was better than continuing to let him make a scene. I am a firm believer that removing oneself from the situation is often the best bet.