The OP was asking for productive ways forward and many are simply listing things they wish were different.
Cultures change from generation to generation. This is inevitable. The world is different now than 50, 100, 1000 years ago. We aren't going back to some way it was way back when. This generation is softer than the previous one, which was softer than the one before that, and so on. So what? It's no ones fault, it just is. The internet has drastically changed the world. It's great for some things bad for others but it's not going away.
I live in Southern California and I see this situation gradually resolving itself because the youth (those under 30) are getting bored with this shelter in place situation. They have been respectful and following along but after 10 weeks plus of this they are moving towards returning to their normal lives.
Younger people generally feel like they are invincible anyway and statistics show that this virus isn't anything they need to worry about. More and more I am seeing them in groups, without masks, returning their lives to the way they were before. Unless the police start throwing people in jail, which I don't believe will happen in a major way, the younger folks will just return to their lives. This will cause the virus to spread very quickly and we'll get to heard immunity at some point... some people (mostly older) will die due to this, which isn't a good thing, but there isn't a cure and there probably won't be one so there is little we can do about it.
Perhaps people will learn from this experience and move towards healthier lifestyles... eating better and exercising regularly. That would be a positive result from all of this but we shall see.
Btw, I am older and in a much higher risk group (and a democrat) I just don't think the world can just hide from this disease for much longer... I don't see any other way.