kids make you old wrote:
I’m 38 and feel old AF. I feel like my 30s flew by in a haze of babies and toddlers and work. I also had my first kid at 30 and now have 3 of them. I actually suspect once my kids are older, I will feel younger, primarily because I will sleep through the night and they will be somewhat self sufficient. Kids under age 6 are a ton of work.
That is true. Grandkids are so much more fun than their parents were.
Truthfully, remembering back to your age and situation, I don't know how my wife and I did it. It seems exhausting. But kids do bring a richness and purpose to life and I would never trade away that exhausting life for anything.
That said, I wouldn't want to go back either. But turn around and suddenly your three kids are adults, maybe with kids of their own, maybe feeling exhausted. But no matter how old your kids are, they will always be your kids.