There's some truth to this complaint. There's a girl from our home state who was running 75 miles a week in summer to train for high school xc. Had a national level career in high school xc and in track (3200 and 5K), but hasn't raced more than a few times in college. She took all the state honors, her face was plastered on milesplit, and then it ended.
People have a right to do what they want with their bodies, and to go to whatever extraordinary means they want to succeed. We told our daughter not to worry about it, that such an intense level of training too early would lead to injury (and it did), and we told her college coaches don't like to see so much mileage. They'd prefer someone who was slightly slower but still had somewhere to go with mileage. Frankly, since this girl got injured toward the end of senior year in high school, we wondered what her recruiting success would be.
Lo and behold, she got taken with scholarship by a top program and a coach who is very-well respected on this board. In my opinion, that set a bad precedent for girls in our state. The next few years we saw a crop of kids running really fast times, entering college meets rather than high school invitationals, and all that. Some of them also got very, very nice recruitment offers and some of them are also spending their college years in the training room.
This problem isn't ending until college coaches say no thanks, which they aren't doing yet.