Tell her to take the high road, don't even worry too much about giving her an explanation. Do not keep having sex. "Confused" is cheater language for "I am cheating." She is kind of a whore.
Tell her to take the high road, don't even worry too much about giving her an explanation. Do not keep having sex. "Confused" is cheater language for "I am cheating." She is kind of a whore.
I mmight be too late!!
BUT, dump her, and don't te;ll her why. Just say you don't want to see her anymore.
Dump her. Preferably right after boning. Don't tell her why, just tell her.
By the way, you sound like a jealous raper/murderer right now. Just saying.
I didn't read the whole thread, but...
...there are no dilemmas when it comes to girls.
They exist for you to have sex with. After that, anything you do is entertainment.
being lied to wrote:
I appreciate everyone's posts. It seems pretty unanimous as for what I should do.
But no one has chimed in about the legal aspects of me reading an open text.
What is she going to do....complain to the FCC?
OP, you are an embarrassment to runners everywhere, but a hero to all cuckolds.
Bend her over, stick your one-eyed trouser snake into her chocolate starfish while she is texting Lancalot, and finish it off with a dirty sanchez. Then get her to fry you up some bologna, eat it to ensure quality, and then cut her loose in the llama pen at the local zoo.
Mr. Obvious wrote:
Hang on to the last shred of your dignity and self-worth and dump her now.
Everyone is giving you good advice. Take it.
The situation now isn't any good and it won't get better. If you manage to keep her interest through this "distraction" there will be another soon. Face it: you called her your "sort-of girlfriend". Have more respect for yourself than putting yourself through this for someone who isn't even able to commit to acknowledging they are in a relationship.
If you were dating casually and she was dating some other guy or guys that would be different, but she feels like she has to lie to you about it. Ask yourself this: if she was honest with you about the texting and seeing this other guy, would you be OK with her doing that? If YES, then keep going and don't make her lie about it. If NO, then cut and run.
And YES, I HAVE taken my own advice before many times and as hard as it was sometimes to give up good sex, I did it. You have to stick up for yourself, nobody else is going to.
Also remember this: In college, there is another busload every day.
Hay King wrote:
Tell her to take the high road, don't even worry too much about giving her an explanation. Do not keep having sex. "Confused" is cheater language for "I am cheating." She is kind of a whore.
I thought it was whore language for "I'm a whore and I refuse to pick because I can have both."
Ralen Gupp wrote:
Bend her over, stick your one-eyed trouser snake into her chocolate starfish while she is texting Lancalot, and finish it off with a dirty sanchez. Then get her to fry you up some bologna, eat it to ensure quality, and then cut her loose in the llama pen at the local zoo.
So...the part about the llama pen, is that some weird sexual innuendo that I am unaware of, or do you literally mean dump her while visiting the llama pen at the local zoo?
Guppy wrote:
Are you boning? If so, assume she's boing the other guy too. Keep boning if you like it, understand she's a tramp, nothing more. If you're not boning, she may or may not be boning the other guy. Regardless, she's seeing the other guy; she's playing you, dude. You have two options: 1) tell her she needs to decide now who she wants or the two of you are done, or 2) just dump her ass. I encourage the latter since if you confront her there's a decent chance she will either choose the other guy or just be more secretive about him. Go find a quality girl if you want a relationship.
This is the correct answer
It's a stupid, old saying, but it's true: Actions always speak louder than words. She's tired of you, probably just horny and doesn't have the courage to let you down because she doesn't want to hurt you.
So you dump her in the manner that many already have mentioned, or you just stop worrying about the emotional part of the relationship and just keep having sex. Personally, I'd kick her out the door so she stops wasting your time and energy.
lots of good advice. i would add, if you have been having unprotected sex you really should get an std test. i would also assume that this new guy is not the first person she has been seeing.
Correction--Cut HER and run. Not in an OJ kind of way, but in enough of a way to send the message.
lane 8 wrote:
watch it wrote:Cut and run
Best advice ever given. Now TAKE IT!!!
There's plenty of fish in the sea, even for you!!
Guy banging two chicks = hero
chick banging two guys = whore
I bet 80% the guys on this thread know the cost of a driveby b****** in their town!
The most surprising thing about this thread is the number of times the word "boning" was used. I haven't heard that term since 1988.