Cpt Ahab wrote: no way in hell I could or want to do the 100 days of sex (with the same woman.) If we're talking different women, then yeah that'd be great. The question really isn't can you it's why in the hell would you?
Exactly. If it was someone new each day I would want to go to 1000 days. With the same person, once a week is plenty.
I would be up for 100 straight days of receiving oral.
With this lack of brain power and bankruptcy of creativity, I am surprised your wife wants to do you at all.
Why would you turn this offer down. Most men your age wont have sex 100 times in the next decade. I think you are a fool and you just made an awful decision.
Stamina Stan wrote:
My wife saw something on tv a while back about improving the intimacy in marriage by having sex every day for 100 straight days.
Absent kids or other intrusions, this could be done.
The questions is whether it should. If sex becomes a daily event like brushing your teeth, I'm not sure it would lead to improved intimacy....
I'm sure a lot of the people bashing me are young, single runners who don't get laid a lot and maybe have not been in a serious relationship yet. If I were 18 again I too would think it's crazy to turn down guaranteed sex for 100 straight days. But you probably won't see it that way when you're in your 40s and have been married for 20 years or so.
Agreed on this. It's a good bet that Letsrun's forums skew young (I'm guessing mostly teens and 20s), and a lot of these posts are not surprising given the usual level of discourse on letsrun.
In any case, I'm 41, have been married 16 years and have 3 kids. And, no, my wife and I haven't ever had sex 100 straight days. I seriously doubt that anyone in this rough profile (or really anyone at all) has unless they were doing it for some particular crazy or monetary reason like writing a book. Hell, I was exhausted after having sex 9 straight days when we were first trying to get pregnant! Of course, that was on top of working a ton of hours and trying to keep some mileage going, a combo which I'm guessing relatively few letsrun posters have yet experienced.
As an aside, I remember my wife telling me (when we were about 25) that her good friend was complaining that her friend's husband had pushed for 30 straight days and she (the friend) was unhappy about it...so apparently this lack of enthusiasm can cross gender lines.
But I imagine that you already knew that nobody really has sex 100 straight days, and that you're looking for validation in turning down your wife's suggestion. I'm not going to second-guess posting on letsrun...after all, why not? It's anonymous, it can be amusing and occasionally you'll even actually get a thoughtful and useful response or two. So I'll just say this as another data point from yet another long-time married guy to a terrific woman: if my wife were to ask me, I'd probably go with it just because she asked and because it would be fun and different (and, let's face it, would break the monotony). But, that said, every couple is obviously hugely different and I've pretty much agreed with every comment that you've made. So don't sweat it. This is between you and your wife and it sounds like you are on solid ground together. If this doesn't float your boat, just move on and don't spend too much energy second-guessing yourself or feeling like you need to defend your original position on an anonymous message board.
I'm sure a lot of the people bashing me are young, single runners who don't get laid a lot and maybe have not been in a serious relationship yet. If I were 18 again I too would think it's crazy to turn down guaranteed sex for 100 straight days. But you probably won't see it that way when you're in your 40s and have been married for 20 years or so.
Agreed on this. It's a good bet that Letsrun's forums skew young (I'm guessing mostly teens and 20s), and a lot of these posts are not surprising given the usual level of discourse on letsrun.
In any case, I'm 41, have been married 16 years and have 3 kids. And, no, my wife and I haven't ever had sex 100 straight days. I seriously doubt that anyone in this rough profile (or really anyone at all) has unless they were doing it for some particular crazy or monetary reason like writing a book. Hell, I was exhausted after having sex 9 straight days when we were first trying to get pregnant! Of course, that was on top of working a ton of hours and trying to keep some mileage going, a combo which I'm guessing relatively few letsrun posters have yet experienced.
As an aside, I remember my wife telling me (when we were about 25) that her good friend was complaining that her friend's husband had pushed for 30 straight days and she (the friend) was unhappy about it...so apparently this lack of enthusiasm can cross gender lines.
But I imagine that you already knew that nobody really has sex 100 straight days, and that you're looking for validation in turning down your wife's suggestion. I'm not going to second-guess posting on letsrun...after all, why not? It's anonymous, it can be amusing and occasionally you'll even actually get a thoughtful and useful response or two. So I'll just say this as another data point from yet another long-time married guy to a terrific woman: if my wife were to ask me, I'd probably go with it just because she asked and because it would be fun and different (and, let's face it, would break the monotony). But, that said, every couple is obviously hugely different and I've pretty much agreed with every comment that you've made. So don't sweat it. This is between you and your wife and it sounds like you are on solid ground together. If this doesn't float your boat, just move on and don't spend too much energy second-guessing yourself or feeling like you need to defend your original position on an anonymous message board.
I think most of the folks posting on here are under 25. There is no point to going 100 days with your wife. How freaking boring is that? Plus there is NO way I'm doing here during her period- if she wants to give me a bj or go anal- fine, but banging a girl while she's menstruating is disgusting.
Hell ya I'm in this club......just not with my wife.....My 24 year old bang each other every day and have been for over 6 months now!
Lost in Spaaaaaaace wrote:
Hell ya I'm in this club......just not with my wife.....My 24 year old bang each other every day and have been for over 6 months now!
drunk
God forbid you commit yourself to something intimate and personal with your wife for 100 days.
Yes, maybe sometimes it's a chore but just like anything, you learn to appreciate and respect that. It's the committment that contains the value for your marriage. Just like you commit to your kids, or your job, or running, or paying bills, or even monogamy with your wife. None of them are ALWAYS fun, but you learn to appreciate and value each of them.
Sometimes you'd probably love to get dirty with the girl at work who you know has something for you, or you'd love to blow a few grand on a TV and throw the bills in the garbage, or you'd love to get in a round of golf [beers] instead of being with the kids. But you sacrifice the fun in that in lieu of your other responsibilities and commitments, as shitty as they are.
This is the same idea as the 100 days of sex. Maybe it takes the fun out of sex for a little while, as you contend, but you commit to it and learn from it. Who knows, maybe you'll change your own mind part way through.
I'm not saying it will ABSOLUTELY work, but I think it's worth a shot to see. Start with a deal on a week, and if you both feel wishywashy about it then stop, but if you start to see something [or she does] then try a month, after a month commit to 2, then 100 days...
Out of 100 days I'm sure there's at least a day that I don't even talk to her, muchless hit it.
MENSTRATION
Dude, your seeking advice or rather most of the posters giving you advice are both younger and have a slower 5k time than the number of years you've been married!
Just thought that was funny.
Not married but I have two girls who visit me from out of state for 1-2 weeks at a time 1-2 times a year and they think they NEED it everyday twice. Its fun for the first few days but give it a rest. Go for a nice run with her and hop in some bushes for a quickie...that will get her excited/scared and excite passion.
Not sure I got it 100 times in my whole marriage. Never more than 2 days in a row.
Very happily married for 12+ years with kids, and although we've never formally tried the 100 days thing we informally do it at least every other day pretty much without fail for the past few years (unless one of us is sick or whatever). It's way better than when we were first married, so I can't see any disadvantage to the 100 days thing. This is probably one case where there's no such thing as "too much of a good thing." How could some daily one on one time and emotional intimacy with your wife be negative? Those are things many women crave, and the 100 day gimmick just so happens to deliver them in a manner that ALL men crave. Sounds like a win-win to me.
Stamina Stan wrote:
Noone Again wrote:Here's one.
I've been married for 19 years. My wife and I have had sex at least twice a day every single day since before getting married. That makes somewhere around 7000 days straight and counting.
Honestly I don't understand anyone who would live without daily sex at least until age 60 or so.
bullshit.
You've never been away for work? Never had the flu and felt like crap? Wife never had the flu? Do you have kids? If so, did you have sex twice the day after she delivered?
Obviously your post wasn't serious, but it cannot be overemphasized how almost impossible what you claim is.
Wrong again. It isn't just possible. It seems the most obvious thing in the world. If you and yours are not having sex every day what the hell are you doing?
But, I have to admit that you are right about one thing - I don't have kids. I'm sure that helps.
And to any guy out there who isn't getting it enough, it is really pretty simple.
1) Make her feel like the most beautiful woman in the world every single time
2) Take care of her sexually first (yours is easy - focus on her)
3) I guarantee if you just follow 1 and 2 you will never go without again.
Post-nuptial shutoff? What a load of loserdom. Take care of your end, she'll take care of you (without even thinking that's what she's doing).
Am I the only one here that does not have a problem with sex while she's on her period? I don't get why it freaks some people out so much.
I'm in my early 40s and married 20+ years. I thought my wife was gorgeous when we married and I still feel that way. I wouldn't have any trouble having sex with her every day if she were up to it. Maybe I'd feel differently if we tried to hit 100 consecutive days, but I doubt it.
I really can't understand why you wouldn't give it a shot. I would be estatic if my wife made me this offer. If for no other reason, do something for her and don't be so selfish.
F***in Fag!! What real man turns down pussy?