I am a former (30 years ago) Division 1 runner who was on a very substantial scholarship at one of the nation's better schools.
This exemplifies why it is so important to go to a school for the right reasons - the school itself.
I doubt this will work out for the original poster. Coming to practice every day is not something either party - coach or athlete - is going to enjoy. I am not being negative, but is difficult in this kind of environment to achieve success.
And let's get real. There is very little money or opportunity with running, so it is not like passing it up or moving to a low key environment is akin to giving up an NBA career.
I was a good student, and regret not going to a Division III school (one of the better ones) where I could have had personal attention at the school in both academics and in a social life (I was without a father), and where with minimal training could run a 3:50ish 1500, a fine performance for Div. III. I had no one around to guide me.
Rather than obsess about your running, ask yourself what you want to do in 5 years. It likely does not involve running. Make positive plans to get there - hopefully staying at your excellent public school, but if not, then work with your parents (if they are supportive) to help you get there through the means of another school.
This is not a knock on D1 scholarships. I thankfully went to school on one. But they aren't a good fit for all. I went on to excellent professional schools and reached levels of achievement at those schools. But that was a difficult transition. I would have been happier and less insecure if I took another route than the Div. 1 scholarship drill, and would have enjoyed running for running's sake.
Again, no sour grapes. I intuited how the guys at Villanova and Oregon were training, and they weren't getting their results by magic. I admired them. But being an elite Div. 1 athlete is not a balanced lifestyle deal, and again, wish I had more insight into the process than I did.