another girl wrote:
yes it is a little hurtful that guys look at porn even when they have girlfriends....sometimes i look at porn if he's away
I'm hearing: "it's hurtful when you do it but not when I do it."
another girl wrote:
yes it is a little hurtful that guys look at porn even when they have girlfriends....sometimes i look at porn if he's away
I'm hearing: "it's hurtful when you do it but not when I do it."
Squid: Every once in awhile you run across some really useful advice on this site.
Nigel Incubator-Jones: Ever think that you might also be bumping into a pedophile?
Ahem. Ever think that he might also be bumping into a fellow pedophile?
Unless it's gay porn or something else weird that you'd have to worry about, you're just a little pussy.
Probably one of the biggest pussy posts I've ever read.
d00d wrote:
am I the only girl on letsrun? wrote:This is horrible! All a girl hears is "you think I'm fat and ugly, and you'd rather look at other girls than me." If you had a gf that wanted to look at porn, you probably would know by now, and she most likely would have had a different reaction. Because of her reaction, the ONLY appropriate response is Older Fellow's. Even if it's a lie.
Wrong, unless he's getting it from her 7 or more times a week. If you're getting it daily or even more than that, no reason to look. But if you're missing days, it's not that he prefers them necessarily, but that the girl didn't put out that day and the mood struck him (which it does...every day.)
But what if he's looking at fat girl porn! Ahh see think about that!
am I the only girl on letsrun? wrote:
be firm & close any discussion wrote:tell her that most all guys look at porn and it has nothing to do with loving or not loving their wife or girlfriend. it's just the way men are built
This is horrible! All a girl hears is "you think I'm fat and ugly, and you'd rather look at other girls than me." If you had a gf that wanted to look at porn, you probably would know by now, and she most likely would have had a different reaction. Because of her reaction, the ONLY appropriate response is Older Fellow's. Even if it's a lie.
Maybe women should just recognize it for what it is to men...entertainment usually perused without a ton of thought instead of the mental gymnastics that women want to put it through.
Also....most women will claim that they want to hear the truth. Yet when the truth is explained to them they want to 1. hear what they want to hear and 2. have men lie about the truth.
That's simply magnificent.
another girl wrote:
yes it is a little hurtful that guys look at porn even when they have girlfriends. but out of curiousity i have looked at my boyfriend's history and i see the only days he does are days that i'm not spending the night. and that's fine. sometimes i look at porn if he's away, etc. but i dont think i'd like to watch together. the way my boyfriend explained it to me, and i do think most girls understand this, is that guys need a visual. they are more visual so they like to look at porn. it doesnt mean they love these girls, etc. just if their girlfriend isn't physically present or doing some sort of strip tease over a web cam, then porn is called into action. done and done.
Don't ruin things by actually understanding the issue.
Amen brother! I think porn is too much of an addiction in today's society and we guys need to stop being pervs. I can't say I haven't done it, but I am trying to stop, and so should you. You will probably feel much more satisfied, although it is not easy.
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
another girl wrote:
yes it is a little hurtful that guys look at porn even when they have girlfriends....sometimes i look at porn if he's away
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
I'm hearing: "it's hurtful when you do it but not when I do it."
Watching porn for girls and guys is completely different. I don't think the experiences are comparable.
It could even be a guy trying to satisfy himself cause he doesn't have his girl there and is imagining that being her on the screen as a result of guys being more visual and needing that aid, instead of just being able to think of her (or them) in his mind.
Nah, I'm into the oldies.
another girl wrote:
Watching porn for girls and guys is completely different. I don't think the experiences are comparable.
...how so? You use it for the intellectual stimulus or something?
Agree. Sexual addiction is most often manifesting these days as viewing of on-line porn. If you are married or in LTR and look at lots of porn, something's not right with the relationship.
Just tell her you are trying to learn some things to be a better lover.
Perhaps saying "I'm doing it for you" may be laying it on a bit thick.
There is actually an instructional tube, not Youtube, that shows you how to give a G-spot orgasm. If I ever get a date, I will let you know if it works.
Tell her you like to watch porn everynow and then as entertainment. Then tell her to watch it with you, start touching her, then tell her to do to you what the girl in the video is doing. Have great sex with her from there on. She will know you are a real man, you drink beer, go out with you friends, and you enjoy porn like every other sane man. Don't cover it up, don't be embarrased, there is nothing wrong with watching a hot female in a video doing what people do best (sex).
You think that's bad? I dated a nutzo prude chick during my junior year in college who wouldn't do anything but dryhump me and rub me... over my pants. As you can imagine, this sucked and the relationship didn't last too long.
She walked into my dorm room one afternoon unannounced after class. A single knock, then the door opened. The nutcase saw her first schlong right then and there, as I was caught midstroke with the latest issue of Playboy's College Girls propped up on my desk.
At first I was embarrassed, but it dawned on my a few days later how fricking awesome that was. She's probably still in therapy.
So, years ago, my gf gets on my computer and starts to type in google. then googals.com or something like that shows up in the history. heeheehee oops
it happens man
Recently i asked my gf if we materbated just to see, and she asked me if i did, i tolder i was a cronic materbater. just tell her you can't help it sorry. i have even jerked off with my gf on my gf and on her things just cause i thought it was funny and only one... i guess the point i was very poorly tring to make is you need a freak on some goodie girl
so funny.... wrote:
Recently i asked my gf if we materbated just to see, and she asked me if i did, i tolder i was a cronic materbater. just tell her you can't help it sorry. i have even jerked off with my gf on my gf and on her things just cause i thought it was funny and only one... i guess the point i was very poorly tring to make is you need a freak on some goodie girl
say wha?
tell her when shes asks you about it:
"girl this ain't none of yo businessm........shoot, yeah you know it, I be keepin it real and I be keepin it fresh?
Give him a break. He's typing with only one hand, and apparently only one lobe.