moons over my hammy wrote:
Coddled, irresponsible mama's boys are first on the list.
Whatever ladies. Half of you will be stay at home moms mooching off your husbands for a few years.
moons over my hammy wrote:
Coddled, irresponsible mama's boys are first on the list.
Whatever ladies. Half of you will be stay at home moms mooching off your husbands for a few years.
il falco wrote:
moons over my hammy wrote:Coddled, irresponsible mama's boys are first on the list.
Whatever ladies. Half of you will be stay at home moms mooching off your husbands for a few years.
Obviously you've never stayed at home, taken care of 3 kids under the age of 5 (2 of them twins), shopped, cleaned, and prepared meals. I have. My husband would be lost without me and he knows it.
It's the hardest job in the world. I'm not saying that what you're doing isn't valuable. You're just living off somebody else. There's nothing wrong with that.
Some chicks dig it when you call them "mommy" during sex.
[quote]fatboyIam wrote:
Exactly!! People think there is something wrong with you when you live at home and are over 30 but that's not the case. Its just a financially smart thing to do.
I agree.
typical single Asian guy wrote:
[quote]fatboyIam wrote:
Exactly!! People think there is something wrong with you when you live at home and are over 30 but that's not the case. Its just a financially smart thing to do.
I agree.
Yes, it is financially smart, but it doesn't do much for your love life.
no speedboat for you , dad wrote:
my parents told me growing up is hard to do so 2 weeks after HS graduation you will be out of our house and on your own.
When they came west for my wedding my Dad suggested they stay at my house, I reminded him growing up is hard to do and pointed out a motel 6 not a mile away.
I did let them use my pool but not the de Tomaso Pantera.
Yes, and now notice that becuase they kicked you out and made you grow up and support yourself you worked hard enough to have a pool and the de Tomaso Pantera.
My friend lived at his parents' house through college and pharmacy school. He was making 100k+ at age 24 and paid for a Mercedes E class in cash his first year out of school. He moved out at 29 or 30 when he and his fiance bought a house and got married. His parents were of modest means but the guy didn't work until he did his pharmacy internship at 23. He's 31 or 32 now.
It doesn't really matter where you live. If you've got a certain something someone will date you.
Actually the way the economy is right now many adults share expenses and live at home.
There is a bit of sex discrimination. A 32 yr. old male at home seems worse than female at home. [/quote]
Conuldn't disagree more. A 32 year old woman living at home with her parents, while they cook and clean for her, is just as bad. Grow a sack...Move out.
Yep - why would you want your parents to cook and clean for you!? I'd feel extremely odd receiving that from them. Don't people want to cook their own food?
I am looking at apartments. Just information gathering.
Maybe it is time.
Cool man. Maybe you should travel abroad with all the money you've saved living with the parents. Teach English in Europe or something. Or go for a master's abroad. There's no better way to come out of your shell than through traveling. Learning a language is a good way to meet new people.
Well, uh--a boy's best friend is his mother.
move out.
Thanks but can't do that with my job.
I found a one bedroom three room apartment for $850 (good size though). Its in a newer apartment complex but has a year lease I need to sign. There were a lot of attractive females living there which is a plus. I think I am going for it.
My parents who were in favor of me moving initially think its too much money.
Srew 'em. I am excited about this.
il falco wrote:
It's the hardest job in the world. I'm not saying that what you're doing isn't valuable. You're just living off somebody else. There's nothing wrong with that.
Consider what the husband would have to pay for the services a stay-at-home mom provides... let's see... housekeeping, day care, errands, clothing repair.... "Living off somebody else" would suggest she's just sitting at home reading Cosmo and watching tv. Hardly the case.
For the most part, I side with the ladies regarding a man having his own place. Basically after graduating from college, you should be out of the house for good, unless you are caring for a parent or parents that need your for whatever reason.
If the guy can't take care of himself, how is he going to be able to take care of you or a family?
I know it is tough out there for some people, but that shouldn't be an excuse to run to mommy and daddy. I'd rather borrow $ from them than live with them.
The point I am making is that somewhere in life you have to be able to stand on your own two feet and face the world. A woman will take you more serious if you face the world on your own that to run back home because it is tough out there.
Granted some women may have ulterior motives and want you away from your mother because it may be easier for them to have control over the guy, but why would you want someone like that?
To the poster that mention being the head female if you ever got married. Why is it important that you are the boss? If I was a mother and my son got married, why would I want anyone over me?? Let me ask you a question. If you and I got married, would I be over your father assuming he is still alive? Would he be ok with that arrangement?
It's one thing for a parent to butt in a relationship when they don't need to and another if there really are issues and they are are involved.
Some women have issues with the mother-in-law because they are insecure and want to be the "Mother" or call the shots with the guy. I'm not saying that the guy ahouldn't be a man and to things to keep the wife happy, but the women out there need to understand that it is not your place to interfere between a mother and a son. The was there long before you were and if you break up she will be there long after you are gone.
Yes there are some pussy mammas' boys out there, but at least I can respect the devotion. Mommy will be there no matter what. Will these same women do the same?
Payday wrote:
Mommy will be there no matter what.
Go sleep with your mommy then. ;)
And to answer your question, I would consider my husband more important than my father, yes.
Payday wrote:
...but the women out there need to understand that it is not your place to interfere between a mother and a son. The was there long before you were and if you break up she will be there long after you are gone.
Yes there are some pussy mammas' boys out there, but at least I can respect the devotion. Mommy will be there no matter what. Will these same women do the same?
A man shall leave his father and mother and cleave unto his wife and they shall become one flesh.
No one is more important than the spouse in the eyes of God and in the eyes of the law. Not parents, not children, nobody.