No. This is how it is done.
No. This is how it is done.
Ah, the deranged fantasy video of pansy-ass men who can't get over being dumped.
OP, tell her you want to see other women until she figures out what she wants. No need to spy on her, act like a degenerate fool, or seek revenge like the idiot in Home Base.
If you like her, step back, be cool, and keep your options with her open for the future. She's confused. Give her some space.
Who cares if there's another guy? There should be other girls in your life... it's not like you guys are exclusive. Start boning other girls. She's not exactly interested in being exclusive with you so get over it. She wants to have her cake and eat it too, so why shouldn't you. And if she has a problem with it, make sure the door hits her on the way out. Welcome to the game, this is how it's played. Either play it, get lucky, or lose.
Ah, the deranged fantasy video of pansy-ass men who can't get over being dumped.
OP, tell her you want to see other women until she figures out what she wants. No need to spy on her, act like a degenerate fool, or seek revenge like the idiot in Home Base.
If you like her, step back and give her some space, be cool, and keep your options with her open for the future.
justdoitalready wrote:
Who cares if there's another guy? There should be other girls in your life... it's not like you guys are exclusive. Start boning other girls. She's not exactly interested in being exclusive with you so get over it. She wants to have her cake and eat it too, so why shouldn't you. And if she has a problem with it, make sure the door hits her on the way out. Welcome to the game, this is how it's played. Either play it, get lucky, or lose.
definitely. she has no problem with getting with other guys. you have every right to get with other girls.
i also like the "since you cant decide, i will" post. shows you wont put up with it. but dont back down if she starts begging. give it a little. maybe she will stop with the other guy. then if you still want to be with her, do it.
if the OP isn't a troll (2/10), there is no way he is boning her from the tone of that post. he'd prob blow in his shorts if she touched his leg (assuming there actually is a she)
Sounds like she prefers the other guy but can't win him over. You're the backup until the other guy makes up his mind. A terse, emotionless break up is headed your way if the other guy gives her what she wants.
If you really want to be more attractive in her eyes (which I think is not in your best interest), I suggest you start ignoring her a fair amount and openly date other women right in front of her.
Dump her ass.
lulz wrote:
if the OP isn't a troll (2/10), there is no way he is boning her from the tone of that post. he'd prob blow in his shorts if she touched his leg (assuming there actually is a she)
Nope not a troll. Yep. Having sex. I can see why you'd think I'm not having sex with her....I have lost my balls temporarily. Or maybe I'm just being patient. It's the lying that bugs me more than the situation.
god damn you are a pussy!!!
she is messing with this other guy. if you are fine with that then keep fvcking her if you want. if you are getting attached at all to her though you need to dump the bitch. from the post you are obviously attached. dump her like she is yesterdays dog poop filled newspaper.
dont you dare beg for her you pussy. be a fvcking man.
Yes, I would get out of this relationship.
I second the advice. Be upfront, tell her you like her but want a monogamous relationship and if she can't handle it then it's over. There are waayyyyy too many other girls out there. Trust me. It will hurt and I hate it for you but it goes away.
You also don't have to be mean to her about it. She may actually be telling the truth to the extent that she is stuck on both you and the other guy. So you don't need to be an ass about things. Just tell her how it is. If she is isn't rational about it, then you know she certainly is not worth it.
just a guess wrote:
Sounds like she prefers the other guy but can't win him over. You're the backup until the other guy makes up his mind. A terse, emotionless break up is headed your way if the other guy gives her what she wants.
If you really want to be more attractive in her eyes (which I think is not in your best interest), I suggest you start ignoring her a fair amount and openly date other women right in front of her.
This makes sense and is what I have suspected.
I have dropped things to be with her. She knows that. That is stupid. I will date others and carve out time to do it...even if it means I see her less.
I appreciate everyone's posts. It seems pretty unanimous as for what I should do.
But no one has chimed in about the legal aspects of me reading an open text.
being lied to wrote:
I appreciate everyone's posts. It seems pretty unanimous as for what I should do.
But no one has chimed in about the legal aspects of me reading an open text.
Don't be a moron. Don't say a word... except goodbye.
if the phone is open and the text is right there, i believe there would be no problem with that.
but powering on her phone after she turned it off, then opening it and going through all the texts would be another thing.
but i'm no lawyer, just a little hipster.
He needs to not break up, keep seeing her, but get less emotional about it.
And while he's seeing her, see another girl thats interested in him, text her, call her, go over to her place etc.
Sort of segue out of the old relationship and into the next one seemlessly.
Oh yeah OP do it before Xmas, thats the only reason your gf is keeping you around. She wants you to spend more money on her. Don't spend any! Spend it on another girl instead!
I hope you've been using a condom because who knows who else she's been boning this whole time.
Mr. Obvious wrote:
Hang on to the last shred of your dignity and self-worth and dump her now.
Once again, it takes the master to point out the obvious.
No Drama Llama wrote:
I hope you've been using a condom because who knows who else she's been boning this whole time.
No. It is who else has been boning her this whole time.
Yeah I agree with the guy who said you're the back up. Start ignoring her and dating other girls in front of her. There's no need to say anything about the texts to her. You know what's up, which is all that matters. I don't think there's really any legal issue, it's just that you'll look so hurt and needy if you bring them up.
being lied to wrote:
I appreciate everyone's posts. It seems pretty unanimous as for what I should do.
But no one has chimed in about the legal aspects of me reading an open text.