Smelly wrote:
I know she didn't see the website in your history but if she looks thru that maybe you should visit sites with non-porn sounding names. I found a good one just recently called crossc***ry.com. That is no joke!! Hahaha
A better option would be to simply turn on "private browsing" before visiting porn sites.
Oh the good old days when you just had to worry about her finding the magazines stashed underneath the bed.
(1) I usually blame friends who send me email links that I open unsuspectingly. Knowing my friends, she buys it.
(2) Could be worse, you could be married. See "post-nuptial shut off" thread. You get the worst of both worlds: (a) no sex normally AND (b) no sex after being caught with porn. Don't ask me why, but (b) is worse.
(3) Go to the doghouse
why haven't you asked her to watch with you?
tell her that most all guys look at porn and it has nothing to do with loving or not loving their wife or girlfriend. it's just the way men are built
be firm & close any discussion wrote:
tell her that most all guys look at porn and it has nothing to do with loving or not loving their wife or girlfriend. it's just the way men are built
This is horrible! All a girl hears is "you think I'm fat and ugly, and you'd rather look at other girls than me." If you had a gf that wanted to look at porn, you probably would know by now, and she most likely would have had a different reaction. Because of her reaction, the ONLY appropriate response is Older Fellow's. Even if it's a lie.
Honestly, are you sure this is your girlfriend and not your mom who caught you?
break up with your gf. she is not worth the lifetime of making you feel like a pervert for enjoying porn.
Squid wrote:
Every once in awhile you run across some really useful advice on this site.
Ever think that you might also be bumping into a pedophile?
am I the only girl on letsrun? wrote:
be firm & close any discussion wrote:tell her that most all guys look at porn and it has nothing to do with loving or not loving their wife or girlfriend. it's just the way men are built
This is horrible! All a girl hears is "you think I'm fat and ugly, and you'd rather look at other girls than me." If you had a gf that wanted to look at porn, you probably would know by now, and she most likely would have had a different reaction. Because of her reaction, the ONLY appropriate response is Older Fellow's. Even if it's a lie.
Wrong, unless he's getting it from her 7 or more times a week. If you're getting it daily or even more than that, no reason to look. But if you're missing days, it's not that he prefers them necessarily, but that the girl didn't put out that day and the mood struck him (which it does...every day.)
marijuologist wrote:
You don't owe her an explanation.
On the other hand, if I were his gf I would want an explanation for all the gay porn on his computer.
Just say "i watch porn" and if she gets pissed.....she stinks...dump her
It really depends on how serious you are with her. If you really love her then you will stop being a perv. If you are lusting after other girls you have more problems than getting caught
who downloads porn onto their computer anymore? what is this 1997?
get with the program man, there's better ways. type in fastest growing site on the internet. boom. just be sure to clear your history haha.
speaking of!
Here is a great biz article (not pornographic, safe for viewing by the young ones) on what is happening in the porn world.
This article doesnt mention it but the fastest growing segment is the one catering to females
soupy sales wrote:
This article doesnt mention it but the fastest growing segment is the one catering to females
Doubling your market segment by going from 5 customers to 10 is probably a lot easier than doubling it by going from 5 million customers to 10 million.
I had a gf (my fiance at the time) walk in on me as I was going to town while watching some porn. She played it off like she didn't care, but she ended up bringing it up from time to time when she was mad.
The article is a good read.
yes it is a little hurtful that guys look at porn even when they have girlfriends. but out of curiousity i have looked at my boyfriend's history and i see the only days he does are days that i'm not spending the night. and that's fine. sometimes i look at porn if he's away, etc. but i dont think i'd like to watch together. the way my boyfriend explained it to me, and i do think most girls understand this, is that guys need a visual. they are more visual so they like to look at porn. it doesnt mean they love these girls, etc. just if their girlfriend isn't physically present or doing some sort of strip tease over a web cam, then porn is called into action. done and done.
another girl wrote:
yes it is a little hurtful that guys look at porn even when they have girlfriends. but out of curiousity i have looked at my boyfriend's history and i see the only days he does are days that i'm not spending the night. and that's fine. sometimes i look at porn if he's away, etc. but i dont think i'd like to watch together. the way my boyfriend explained it to me, and i do think most girls understand this, is that guys need a visual. they are more visual so they like to look at porn. it doesnt mean they love these girls, etc. just if their girlfriend isn't physically present or doing some sort of strip tease over a web cam, then porn is called into action. done and done.
Pretty much, yeah. That and sometimes you want something different and rather than cheat on your g/f you just rub one out to a girl that's way hotter, but unattainable.