tellin tyme wrote:
Drink half as much as you usually do being sober gives you a great advantage over the guys who need bottled courage to talk to someone.
neighbor hood hang out bars- the kind you dropinto to catch a game, a quick burger or the central place to meet friends and then go to a movie, show or a sports event. Your local is a long term investment-get to know the regulars, especially the couples, get to know the staff they can be a big help introducing you around. Be yourself everywhere no acts no posing introduce your self to the bartender and the folks around you. Get into mixed company conversations, every woman has a friend they would like to see "get a good man". Prove you are that man- be honest up front and most of all listen to what people say and comment on their thoughts, It's Ok to disagree just be sure you indicate that you heard and evaluated their view point... discuss things do not argue. Keep the dialog open and ongoing winning points is not the end game here. The end game is keeping common ground open to insure further social interaction.
When you become a regular who knows the staff & other people who often are in the joint you are not alone.
YOU MUST FIND A WING CHICK! That's right a girl who has an outgoing personality the prettier the better. GF/wife of a friend, a neighbor or a long time friend. You must be seen with girls to show other girls you have been able to gain approval from other females .
Any other joint- Bring the most attractive wingchick you can find.
Watch your drinking-always be the soberest one in the group.
^this, and being a regular gets you more buybacks