As the title says, a girl I'm seeing right now, I believe attempted to hurt herself after a failed serious relationship. She is a joy to be around, most of the time, but has bizarre tendencies and they seem to be getting worse the more I get to know her. We've been going out for just less than a month (3 weeks tonight marks our first date). Anyways before this gets any further, I was looking for anyone who has been in a similar situation and what the outcome was. Am I overlooking some red flags, or just being paranoid? Do people with suicidal ideations ever recover and go on to lead a normal life? Or is it a dark cloud that hangs over them the rest of their life, bringing down the people they are with as well?