Lone moran wrote:
I’m a lonely post grad runner in a mid sized city. I’ve been through the mill on online dating, over 25 dates in the last few months and nothing really clicked. In college I exclusively dated runners and I think that’s what I still need. Only trouble is it’s tough to find women that are serious runners in my city. I’ve seen a few cuties keeping up a good pace, but I’m hesitant to approach them. They’re out there to work out, not to be picked up. Still, I’m wondering if there’s a way to make a connection with someone I pass by on a run. Help me letsrun youre my only hope
Runners meet other runners through coaches sessions or track meets. I’m sure you’ve heard of those.
They tend to filter out the random weirdos that way, because you can observe them first, and have mutual acquaintances.
For instance, I hooked up with a fellow runner in college once, and was warned off by a female acquaintance that he beat up his ex girlfriend. She wasn’t the type to lie. I had nothing to do with him again.
Can I just say that the types who are posting on this type of thread on here lately asking these questions are totally aware they shouldn’t approach women on runs. But they are lonely maladjusted individuals who get a kick out of scaring women by posting about it on internet sites. Probably because they feel women have all the power and it’s unfair they have the choice to turn down men like them.
If you are capable of tieing your own shoelaces, you are capable of Understanding repeated advice not to approach or follow women.