Why is dating so hard. Everytime I go to for a coffee date with a girl it never goes anywhere. It feels like this video sums up all my experiences. This is like my latest experience from yesterday https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r_Ge4F4E9JE
Why is dating so hard. Everytime I go to for a coffee date with a girl it never goes anywhere. It feels like this video sums up all my experiences. This is like my latest experience from yesterday https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r_Ge4F4E9JE
Why coffee? You enjoy getting caffeine jitters and bad breath around girls?
I assume you are active; invite a girl for a run, or putt putt, or bowling, or a hike, or some type of activity that will help stimulate conversation on its own.
First dates are about getting to know each other AND finding out if you enjoy spending time together.
You lied about someone dying from cancer?
I'm just addicted to coffee. I guess going for a run would be a perfect date after we connect enough over coffee and I know she likes running. I never lied about anybody dying. I did tell a lie about a marathon and felt bad that I just lied to a potential soulmate. I said that I fell at the 5 mile mark but continued and finished despite many fractures. I'm not like that guy in Fargo but it just feels like that video shows what dating is like.
It shows what dating is like if you're deranged. That man's smile is enough to send most women running for the door!
I think he looks good. Girls like guys which are happy within(hence the smiles). He might have messed up the date when he started crying but he looked dressed real good. I often were marathon finisher tops but think a suit and tie might be a good change for me. He also took her to the Raddison in that movie so maybe I need to go somewhere fancy. I usually pick Starbucks because it is never really busy and has so much space compared to any other loud coffee shop around me. I guess a hotel like a Raddison would be good if it has a big dining area.
Starbucks is a good choice.
He doesn't look happy. He looks desperately sad and hysterical. He was like snarling almost.
Don't wear running outfits, especially not race tops. Wear something casual but freshly washed, like a nice pair of jeans, casual/retro trainers, and a nice T shirt. Don't overthink it.
Banana Bread wrote:
I'm just addicted to coffee.
Lol I wouldn't invite a girl over to drink cough syrup until AT LEAST the 3rd date.
This is likely more accurate:
She looks cute and nicer then any girl I've dated. I wish I was with her. She looks like a soulmate. I would have made that story more successful. I would ask her if she has done marathons and if she ever will do one. I would offer to help her train and run and reach her goal. That guy was a self centred douche and didn't consider her.
Dating is easy. Commitment is hard
Commitment sounds like the easy part to me. If a cute girl likes me on a date then I will do everything in my control to make her stay with me and be happy together. I would treat her properly and make her my soulmate. It is just a matter of finding that girl.
Jamin believes in the Ukrainian women. Maybe you should, also.
you know what they say, if you meet an jerk, they're an jerk. if everyone you meet is an jerk, you're the jerk.
in other words, if it smells like poop everywhere you go, check your shoe
Banana Bread wrote:
Why is dating so hard. Everytime I go to for a coffee date with a girl it never goes anywhere. It feels like this video sums up all my experiences. This is like my latest experience from yesterday
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r_Ge4F4E9JE
All you need to do is ask yourself: “What Would Bekele Do?”
He’d take his date out to a trail and run her to death. Go hard from the outset and never let up. Women love that.
Banana bread, from what I've read you live in Texas? There should a lot of señoritas out there for you. They are much nicer than American women.
Based on one of your comments in a thread the other day, I can see why it would be hard for somebody like you. You probably freak them out. Ask yourself: when you meet a girl do you actually care about her as a human or just what she could potemtially give you? Because the only way to a woman’s heart is to get to know them on a spiritual level instead of just an “I want to bond and mate” kind of level, actually get to know them as people, forget about sex and be involved with their passions and feelings. Every single guy I know cannot date because they have trouble with this, the ones who don’t (no matter how ugly) always seem to be able to bag a woman.
Wasn't Banana Bread the guy who the other day described running across from a woman until they got to a park, then asking if he could run with her and basically stalking her until she took off to do some tempo pace?
Don't chase them wrote:
Wasn't Banana Bread the guy who the other day described running across from a woman until they got to a park, then asking if he could run with her and basically stalking her until she took off to do some tempo pace?
He must have taken this song literally .
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oJL-lCzEXgIDating gets in the way of success