Recently one of the people I have lived with in college and who stood up in my wedding 2 months ago asked me to be an “Alternate Groomsman.” This means if one of the “Official Groomsmen” (and yes that IS what they are being called) “can’t make it or perform his “official duties” I will be called up to fill in.
I have been asked to rent the same tux BUT NOT WEAR IT TO THE WEDDING “out of respect “ unless I am given “official status.”
Is this a new thing?
The groom is one of my best friends and I feel a little slighted. My wife says we should just skip the whole thing.