i'm stuck in a rut that I feel like experience should be able to answer but i have none. I met this chick in one of my classes during the spring semester, and we started texting during the summer. We're in the same program, so we'll be in eachother's classes for a year. So we know eachother, but we haven't yet met up for a date or anything like that. She's smart, funny, and cute. She's sending good vibes my way, and I feel like she's into me and I'm feeling her to the point that i'm considering meeting up. Problem is that I actually have had a girlfriend for almost 4 years. When my girlfriend texts me, I don't get as excited as when this chick texts me. I feel guilty cause my girlfriend has absolutely held it down for me these 3 years, and I kinda barely know this chick but I'm more excited to talk to her. Am I just bored with my gf, do I need to break it off if I'm finding myself tempted? Or is this chick just a short term distraction? I'm sure someone has been through this before. What did you find was the best option?