crap chat wrote:
You've got to be something of a pushover too because this day in age women think it is perfectly okay to maintain a fan club of guys at their disposal as "just friends".
You're supposed to ignore this, be confident and not sound insecure. Yup! Totally cool with me and the idea of monogamy.
Meanwhile she gets hit up on facebook, instagram and snapchat 24/7 and all of her friends act like sloots.
I think as we get beyond college age this becomes more and more true for the women who remain somewhat attractive.
She can have her pick and knows it so you better bow down. However as men reach 50, we tend to want only women about 10-15 years younger.
I have a friend who is 56, has heart problems and is legally blind. He went to an Asian country and married a girl. He came back without her. Went back to marry her again. Then he brought her back. He is 6 foot and 250. She is 5 foot 100 and 39.
No kidding and his older sister who is a therapist said my friend did not do it for the girls looks or body!
Raight!
I'm 60 and I'm told that I have to marry women ages 55-65 by women therapists! Raight! (I mean there are rare women at this age that still look good. Get this, I have approached two divorced women in this age group and they say they have boyfriends.)
So I continue to hold out and take chances once in a while when I feel like it. But excuse me if I think it's not going to happen.
For those women who care to criticize me, Yes I'm a hottie for 60. I am always told I look like I'm in my 40s.