You have no idea what you are talking about and it terrifies me that you are a college coach.
http://www.ncaa.org/sites/default/files/Staying+in+Bounds+Final.pdf"In the context of sports programs within institutions of higher learning, sexual abuse can occur regardless of
the minor/adult status of the student-athlete, and regardless of the age difference between the perpetrator
and victims. Whether the student-athlete is 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, or older, she or he is significantly less powerful
than a head coach, assistant coach, athletics trainer, sport psychologist, athletics director, or other athletics
department staff with supervisory control or authority over student-athletes. It is this power differential that
makes such relationships inherently unequal, and when relationships are unequal, the concept of “mutual
consent” becomes problematic.
Because of this power differential, any amorous or sexual relationship between coaches and student-athletes
constitutes sexual abuse. In other words, the dynamics of the coach-athlete relationship in intercollegiate sport
make any sexual contact between a coach and an athlete abusive, regardless of whether it was wanted by the
athlete and regardless of whether the athlete is over the age of consent."
100% indefensible. Period.