I agree with everything here.
More intimacy for sure.
30 day challenge
http://www.letsrun.com/forum/flat_read.php?thread=8559718As for catering to wive's impulses, I once had a married male part-time college student approach me to "keep an eye on his wife", she was a full-time college student.. What could I do, nothing. She was having an affair with her professor. The husband attacked the professor physically. Sick thing was that the couple was in their early 40's. They had a teen son. Now, he, the son, knew his mother as a whore.
Women say they don't think often times, but they do think and clearly and they can be dogs, pigs I say.
Keep me out of it.
But really this is bad, and it can get worse if you are lazy.
Suggestions:
Why not hiking or something as challenging, hike the PCT. Maybe diving and do it together. Diving with treasury finding and ship wreck seeking. Maybe something selfless like adopting a Foster kid, one that is not too bad.
Why don't you try a small business?
Why don't you try a Non-profit for a cause?
This reminds me of Women that like horses. They don't have the money for horses. Yet they think they can have a horse.
Once this teen I knew told her parents she wanted to sponsor an African kid. The girl didn't have a job.