At what age does it start to become hard to have random hookups with women?

late 20's, after 28 or 29, maybe early 30's is about right; at that age they're they're no longer crazy immature girls anymore, they're mature women who are looking to settle down

niched wrote:

Seems like in my area there is a pretty steep decline of available women over the age of around 25 or 26, and then by the time women are 30 they're either damaged goods/full of baggage or are seeking marriage or both.

Your observations?

At puberty: risk of out-of-wedlock conception, STDs, broken heart, poor preparation for marriage...

Did you truly need to ask?

niched wrote:and then by the time women are 30 they're either damaged goods/full of baggage

If you're looking for random hookups, that's precisely what you're looking for

It gets harder every year as the pool of women slowly dwindles. A couple FWBs in your stable will become your best bet by the time you're in your late 20s.

Once you make it to your 40s, if you've got a body/haircut/clothes/apartment, you can start picking up young college chicks again.

The female sexual market value peaks very high very early and then diminishes fast. Age 40 is game over for women. The decline in female SMV starts before age 25.

Money is far more important than age in this equation.

back woods wrote:

Money is far more important than age in this equation.

Yes SFH...we know.

niched wrote:

Seems like in my area there is a pretty steep decline of available women over the age of around 25 or 26, and then by the time women are 30 they're either damaged goods/full of baggage or are seeking marriage or both.

Your observations?

Pretty much everyone is full of baggage and/or damaged goods at 30. It's called life happens. In fact, I am loathe to trust someone that can't admit to undergoing some sh!t by the time they are 30. If you take any risks in life, you will get burned at some point.

And yes, random hookups can get harder the older you get, because the available pool is reduced and you are perceived differently.

Women at 40 who are looking for casual sex will advertise it heavily. In shape, wearing good looking/slutty clothing. They know what they want, and are not interested in bullshit. This is maybe 3-5% of the entire population of women who are around 40, but they will find you.

Your subject and your message don't line up.

You subject makes it sound like you are talking about the age of yourself and the message is about the age of the women.

It seems like the answer is to keep hooking up with 25 year old women no matter how much you age.

SloppyMeatHole wrote:

Women at 40 who are looking for casual sex will advertise it heavily. In shape, wearing good looking/slutty clothing. They know what they want, and are not interested in bullshit. This is maybe 3-5% of the entire population of women who are around 40, but they will find you.

I'm married so not in the game, but I have a single buddy who is 46. He could find a really attractive similar age woman any day he wanted. Those saying it's downhill after twenties are still in their twenties. It doesn't change, you're just sleeping with different age women.

I'm recently divorced and 58- it is easier than ever and with younger women (late 20's, early 30's). They know I won't talk about it and I'm experienced (and mature) and care about their pleasure as well as mine.

Vivalarepublica wrote:

Pretty much everyone is full of baggage and/or damaged goods at 30. It's called life happens. In fact, I am loathe to trust someone that can't admit to undergoing some sh!t by the time they are 30. If you take any risks in life, you will get burned at some point.

The rationalization hamster. Whatever helps you cope.

niched wrote:

Seems like in my area there is a pretty steep decline of available women over the age of around 25 or 26, and then by the time women are 30 they're either damaged goods/full of baggage or are seeking marriage or both.

Your observations?

How old is your mom? It's still (very) easy at that age

Star wrote:

Your subject and your message don't line up.

You subject makes it sound like you are talking about the age of yourself and the message is about the age of the women.

It seems like the answer is to keep hooking up with 25 year old women no matter how much you age.

That was my thought as well. OP's post is kind of like saying that a 30-year-old can't get a dog because most dogs don't live past 10 or 15.

Old guy.. wrote:

I'm married so not in the game, but I have a single buddy who is 46. He could find a really attractive similar age woman any day he wanted. Those saying it's downhill after twenties are still in their twenties. It doesn't change, you're just sleeping with different age women.

Really attractive 46 year old women are almost non-existent. So it does change.

ergt wrote:

Really attractive 46 year old women are almost non-existent. So it does change.

They are also hardly even fertile anymore. That is another big change.

Vivalarepublica wrote:

niched wrote:

Seems like in my area there is a pretty steep decline of available women over the age of around 25 or 26, and then by the time women are 30 they're either damaged goods/full of baggage or are seeking marriage or both.

Your observations?

Pretty much everyone is full of baggage and/or damaged goods at 30. It's called life happens. In fact, I am loathe to trust someone that can't admit to undergoing some sh!t by the time they are 30. If you take any risks in life, you will get burned at some point.

And yes, random hookups can get harder the older you get, because the available pool is reduced and you are perceived differently.

I agree with this. I had a lot of shit happen to me earlier than most, which is why dating seriously has been so difficult. Everyone seems like children to me since they've not experienced true loss or true hardship yet. I get along much better and have a better mutual understanding with people who are older.

For those saying my title and post don't match up, I was under the assumption that hooking up with girls in their early 20s is a lot easier when you yourself are in your 20s than when you're in your 40s. Sure, it can still happen, but it's super easy at 27 to sleep with girls who are 20-24. Starts to get a little harder when you're 10+ years older than them, or at least it's viewed differently by friends, family, society, etc.

Red pill giver wrote:

Vivalarepublica wrote:

Pretty much everyone is full of baggage and/or damaged goods at 30. It's called life happens. In fact, I am loathe to trust someone that can't admit to undergoing some sh!t by the time they are 30. If you take any risks in life, you will get burned at some point.

The rationalization hamster. Whatever helps you cope.

Cute, Mr. Red Pill. The rationalization hamster that I'm familiar with has to do with individuals finding ways to rationalize their crap behavior or position in life, and doing it repeatedly without doing anything to change the behavior or situation. I'm interested to know what you think I might be rationalizing.

How that applies to my observation that life is hard and generally everyone has struggles or experiences some sh!t, I don't know. I believe it's unhealthy to view individuals as irreversibly damaged or hopelessly full of baggage, when the issues they are dealing with could be completely resolvable.

Now if you've somehow lived a charmed life free from struggle or are completely surrounded by similar individuals, congrats, I'm impressed. I don't know anyone like that.